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We moved too fast -- is this saveable?

Q.   Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...

A.   29 March 2014: Thanks :( The rational part of my brain knows these things. The part of my brain that feels like a major body part is missing is having a hard time with this. I was very honest with my daughter and she knows he's not coming back and that he has a ... (read in full...)

We moved too fast -- is this saveable?

Q.   Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...

A.   29 March 2014: I did tell him not to get in touch with me anymore. That's why he said he wouldn't text me anymore and he was sorry. I do wonder sometimes if I'm just feeling sorry for him or sorry for myself but for the most part, I just genuinely miss him. His ... (read in full...)

We moved too fast -- is this saveable?

Q.   Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...

A.   29 March 2014: Update: We have only been in contact a few times since I posted this. He took our dog. He called me one night a few weeks ago telling me he couldn't handle her anymore with his work schedule so he had to drop her off to my house. When he dropped her ... (read in full...)

We moved too fast -- is this saveable?

Q.   Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...

A.   10 February 2014: He just texted me. I think he was surprised when I didn't contact him after he moved out. He asked "Hey are you guys doing ok?" As if we wouldn't be capable of functioning without him. It's like he could sense I got some good advice and was ready to ... (read in full...)

We moved too fast -- is this saveable?

Q.   Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...

A.   10 February 2014: Thank you and I appreciate your feedback. Those are the things I need to hear. I wish I could fit everything that's happened over the past 2 years into here but no one would read it, lol. He struggled with depression before we start dating, I think ... (read in full...)

Am I just a friend with benefits or are we moving slowly towards a relationship?

Q.   I started hanging out with a guy I know. I love spending time with him. I would love very much to be in a relationship with him. I thought that was the way he was headed too. After hanging out for a while we slept together. We text every day (or at ...

A.   18 January 2011: Well, I talked with him about it :( over the phone no less. He basically told me that he doesn't want a relationship and he said his last girlfriend messed him up. He's really independent and just wanted to be friends and then we both let it ... (read in full...)

Am I just a friend with benefits or are we moving slowly towards a relationship?

Q.   I started hanging out with a guy I know. I love spending time with him. I would love very much to be in a relationship with him. I thought that was the way he was headed too. After hanging out for a while we slept together. We text every day (or at ...

A.   13 January 2011: Thank you all so much for your responses! He texted me yesterday and we chatted a bit. I (against my better judgement) asked when he was free and he told me not until Sunday night because he has plans friday and saturday night. The fact that he only ... (read in full...)

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