Will I bleed when I have sex for the first time?
Q. I'm really ready to have sex with my man soon. The thing is he's done it loads before and I'm still a virgin, I've told him I'm not but now I'm wondering can he tell if I am or not when we are doing it? I know it's going to hurt but will it be ...
A. 13 November 2007: Everyone is different but from my own experience and when discussing with people who I know, yes there is going to be blood when you have sex, but you may not on your first time, as you are probably aware your virginity is a layer of skin inside the ... (read in full...)
It's only a matter of time until we will have to move it up a level and to be honest I'm really scared because I don't have a clue what I'm doing when it comes to foreplay.
Q. I'm 17 and I've just started going out with my boyfriend who is 19. The thing is I am about as unexperienced as it gets. We kissed last Saturday and have done since but I don't think he knows that it was my first kiss. He said I was really good ...
A. 6 July 2007: I no exactly how you feel, everyone has been there at some point. You have so many feelings going on at the moment and you will feel the pressure but the only person putting on the pressure is you! When the time is right to move forward you will ... (read in full...)
I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life.
Q. I've been married 5 years and got together when I was only 16, I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life. I know I'm being selfish but I can't shake this feeling that there's more to ...
A. 6 July 2007: I'm not to sure what to write as i don't know what you feel you have missed out on, being young free and single? flings?, nights out with friends?. You have a husband who you love very much, some people crave what you have so much that they settle ... (read in full...)
I have been on a roller coaster relationship, but I dont want to lose her
Q. This is a complicated situation and I want to include as much details as possible. I met this girl a three months ago at a function. i'm 20 she's 18. After two weeks of talking every night on the phone for 5 or 6 hrs we finally got together and ...
A. 6 July 2007: This is turning into a repetative circle. Stop seeing her so much and move on.... (read in full...)
I want to tell her in a way that says I love you with all my heart, and make her feel really special that she is the chosen girl kind of thing but I just don't know how to put it all together.
Q. Hey everyone, Sooo my girlfriend and I recently had sex for the first time. She is not a virgin. However I WAS but she does not know this. I would happily tell her but she has never asked and also I am a few years older than her so I thought it ...
A. 1 July 2007: I think its great that you want to be completely honest with her, you sound very much in love. Your age group being 18 - 21 is young so when you say you don't want to turn her off by telling her you were a virgin is a bit silly because not everyone ... (read in full...)
I like a guy who is only 10 years younger than my mum. Could this work?
Q. Hi, I hope you can give me some advice. I am a single mum and I've been single since I split from my daughter's father 3 years ago. My ex and I get along well and he still is a fantastic Dad and my daughter loves his gilfriend, so I have no problems...
A. 1 July 2007: You can't help who you fall for, and after 3 years of no men and no sex anyone would be terrified of being hurt again. To me, age is just a number, you see plenty of women walking around with their toyboy lovers...they are'nt ashamed, they're happy. ... (read in full...)
I am having a few problems trying to overcome an abusive relationship and wondered if anyone can help?
Q. I am having a few problems trying to overcome an abusive relationship and wondered if anyone can help. We split almost a couple of months ago. Within our relationship, though on occasion he could be thoughtful, intelligent and caring, he also had...
A. 1 July 2007: If you have already made up your mind about moving on then start now. this man sounds like he is never going to change for anyone. Even if he has met a strong, independant woman as you put it, that doesn't mean he won't break her down emotionally ... (read in full...)
I have been on a roller coaster relationship, but I dont want to lose her
Q. This is a complicated situation and I want to include as much details as possible. I met this girl a three months ago at a function. i'm 20 she's 18. After two weeks of talking every night on the phone for 5 or 6 hrs we finally got together and ...
A. 30 June 2007: You obviously know what you want. You want her. The lady mentioned in your problem obviously does'nt have a clue. You have only known eachother for a few months and so much has happened that would be hard to recover from, such as getting angry with ... (read in full...)
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