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I think I have a foot fetish. Why would I be like this?

Q.   I am 18 and for a couple of years I've had this soft spot for a certain porn video. It is all about foot fetish. It's just licking and kissing etcetera and the people are kind of clothed but in real life I have a foot fobia and in any other video ...

A.   27 June 2012: Feet fetishes or any fetish for that matter is actually a type of odc. A lot if people think ocd is just having things a particular way or they are super clean but theres actually different types of ocd. O stands for obsessive and C is for ... (read in full...)

Is it weird to want to have more sex than my bf does?

Q.   heyy so basically my question is, is it weird to want to have more sex than my bf does? We used to literally have sex like 4 or 5 times every single day when we first together. We ve been together for almost 9 month and the longer were together the ...

A.   30 April 2012: honeymood period? Were not married, were just dating. If it's already died down this early, how can we progress in our relationship, if it's already boring to him. But good idea, I'm just not gunna intiate it anymore. Thanks!!... (read in full...)

Should I wait for him to ask me out?

Q.   There this guy i like we talk and lught together all the time he tell me that he enjoy time we spent together and always smile we am in a bad mood he always try to make me smile do you think his intereted and should i ask him out or wait for him to ...

A.   23 December 2011: don't ever ask out a dude!! Everrr! Wait for him... (read in full...)

Have you ever gotten to the end of your teenaged years and realized you didn't do anything?

Q.   I'm actually quite annoyed at myself, i'm 19 and i don't feel like i've lived my teenage life to the fullest! I haven't slept with anyone.. STILL. I haven't experimented or at least tried one drug, something even small such as weed. I haven't had a ...

A.   22 December 2011: so you wish you were a slut or a drug addict? Trust me my teenage years consisted drugs, alcohol, sex, parties and being wild...and it has gotton me no where. I wish I never did any of that, I wasted my teens years and it made me nothing but ... (read in full...)

Does he like me?

Q.   So there's this boy that I really like, but I'm receiving mixed signals from him, I'd appreciate your opinion on if it seems like he likes me too! I have been friends with this guy for a few years, we have always been reasonably close (because of ...

A.   21 December 2011: you don't have to text him first to show you like him... If your even just replying to him obviously you have interest. And yes you have to put effort... If you guys are seriously "talking" but you guys aren't anything yet. Let him chase you ... (read in full...)

Does he like me?

Q.   So there's this boy that I really like, but I'm receiving mixed signals from him, I'd appreciate your opinion on if it seems like he likes me too! I have been friends with this guy for a few years, we have always been reasonably close (because of ...

A.   20 December 2011: from what you said it kinda seems like you're the one chasing him and be more of the agressor. Don't ask him to hang out! How will you ever know if he likes you if you're doin all the moves? Don't text him first, don't ask to hang out.. That's HIS ... (read in full...)

My Bf had a message in the drafts folder of his phone saying, "I don't even know why I'm with (my name), she's f**king gross bro, like who hasn't f***ed her."!!

Q.   so basically the other day my boyfriend and I of 4 months got in a fight because he found out that I had dated this guy he knows that he thinks is DISGUSTING. It doesn't make sense also because this happened like 6 years ago, it's not fair that he's ...

A.   17 December 2011: thank you guys!! Your comments have helped me a lot and sort out what to do. Him being just mad is what I was always thinking but then I asked my friends and they say I'm just making excuses for him. I just feel weird now, like I don't feel ... (read in full...)

He's frustrated. I'm unhappy. What could be causing my Bf to suddenly get erectile dysfunction? It's never happened before.

Q.   My and I boyfriend have been together for 4 months now, and recently we've had a problem with him staying hard during sex. I'm on birth control so we never use condoms but it's just so weird because during foreplay or oral sex he stays full on hard...

A.   15 December 2011: thanks guys! Nooo he's not stressed, I do think it's getting boring we have sex like at twice a day everyday.. Same like routine and everything so maybe it's just like too repative? We should prob tone it down a bit lol... (read in full...)

Does he really think of me as just a friend?

Q.   I asked a guy out at the end of September that I had been crushing on for the whole summer. (he's 29 I'm 21). I was proud of myself that I was so straight forward with him. I asked him on a date and he explained he didn't have time. So, I straight ...

A.   14 December 2011: okay, so honestly I feel that since he knows you like him and you were that aggressive him with him by asking a guy out that he think it'll be easier to have sex with you. I'm sorry but if a guy really liked you and he was actually interested you he ... (read in full...)

Does he actually like me?

Q.   ok, so i have been seeing this guy for two months. the first week i met him, we saw each other three or four times and spent many hours together. our first date was planned at 8pm, and included dinner, and then we stayed out all night for drinks. ...

A.   27 September 2011: I'm reply to your update I think the next time you see him just be like " so I really like you a lot, so I'm curious to as where we stand relationship wise. I don't want to waste my time if this isn't really going anywhere. I've had a lot of fun ... (read in full...)

Does he actually like me?

Q.   ok, so i have been seeing this guy for two months. the first week i met him, we saw each other three or four times and spent many hours together. our first date was planned at 8pm, and included dinner, and then we stayed out all night for drinks. ...

A.   22 September 2011: sounds like a waste of time. You may really like him but that can't be the only thing to in account for. With how things are right now, is this seriously someone you want to be in a relationship with? You want to be with someone who doesn't have ... (read in full...)

How do I build up to sober sex with him?

Q.   I just got into a new relationship with an incredible guy, and we have so much fun with one another. We went to a party recently, got drunk, and had sex for the first time together. My question is, how do I now build up to sober sex with him, ...

A.   21 September 2011: if you're not comfortable with him than you should not be having sex with him. If you guys continue on like this where you guys don't have a strong solid relationship and contining having sex it's going to really mess things up for you and your guys ... (read in full...)

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