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Is it bad for me to wish my mum was dead, just to have some relief to know that no one is in danger - including herself?

Q.   My mother is an alcoholic. She and my stepfather were married almost 10 years before they got a divorce. I understand why he did it. He had to choose either his 4 children (including me) or my mother who was helpless. It was a hard decision for him ...

A.   27 September 2007: I completely feel for you. I have an alcoholic father who has done things very similar to your mother. I used to believe the same that if he was dead I wouldn't cry but then you realise she has a disease, no different to any other. It isn't bad for ... (read in full...)

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