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Should I get to know this girl better? Does she like me?

Q.   hello, i'll get straight to the point. There's this girl at my school who is known as the slut of sluts and the b!tch of b!tches. Anyways, in the past she has always treated my friends and i badly. She called me a nerd once, and im not, i do two di...

A.   5 June 2011: Sounds like this girl gets a helluva lot of insults being thrown her way. Even if she looks to be strong, she might be really hurt inside. I'd say, be a good friend to her and then see how it goes from there (:... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents that I kissed a girl?

Q.   My friend and I kissed, we're both girls. I'm kind of confused about my sexuality. I mean, I like guys I know that but is it possible I like girls too? And should I tell my parents? The only problem is I dont want to complicate things when I'm so ...

A.   27 February 2011: Just hold out until you're sure about your sexuality. There's no point in telling her and making a lot of fuss at home if it turns out that it's nothing. The same thing happened to me with my friend a couple of years ago. It turned out to be... (read in full...)

Crushes on teachers

Q.   Have a crush on your teacher? Can't help but think about them all the way through class? Does s/he seem to give you more attention than the other students? Seem like s/he might like you too? Well this article is for you. Firstly there is nothi...

A.   13 December 2010: Just wondering what everyone on here thinks about students being friends with teachers? Obviously not the "lets hang out together this weekend" type of friends of course. I mean friends as in you can tell them your news, talk to them about st... (read in full...)

Is there anyway I can get them to leave me alone? Without telling my parents?

Q.   Okay, there's a quite long backstory to this, but I'll try and surmise it for you. I had a six-month long relationship with this boy, which ended very messily with a lot of bad things said. I won't go into a lot of details, in short he got me ...

A.   13 December 2010: Just to be clear, the older guy isn't who I'm talking about when I say my ex-boyfriend. Stickman, you probably think I'm too young, but I'm not as immature as I was when I was with my ex-boyfriend. I was in a really bad place back then, and I've... (read in full...)

It's extremely difficult to be near him. How do I cope?

Q.   Okay, I'll have to go into a bit of background detail for this question, but here it goes. About 9 months ago, I got into a relationship with a good friend of mine. My mental health was not in the best way at the time, as I was in the early stages...

A.   18 September 2010: The depression and drinking were a long long time ago. That's all over for me now. The only problem I have is my friend and this boy x... (read in full...)

We broke up, and now he's badmouthing me to all of my friends, but denying it when I confront him. Help!

Q.   Okay so, about a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of six months. The relationship just wasn't working for me and in the end I figured out I didn't actually like him as more than a friend. It wasn't really a bitter break-up, and we said that...

A.   25 July 2010: Thanks everyone that answered. Yeah he's just basically reinforcing my reasons for dumping him, so I'm just going to try and be the bigger person. I guess I'll see who my real friends are from this anyway :) X... (read in full...)

I think I like another girl more than my girlfriend!

Q.   Hi i need help. about 3 months ago i started to like this girl my age(15) and we got to know each other more and more then she said that she kinda liked me too. a few days later talked again and i found out she had a boyfriend i felt as if i was ...

A.   7 July 2010: Well it's not fair to lead your girlfriend on if there's someone you like more than her. You'll both just end up miserable. My advice would be to break up with your girlfriend and after a few weeks, go after the girl you like.... (read in full...)

Contraceptive implant is affecting my periods

Q.   Well, i got an contraception implant and my periods have come out brown and irregular and i dont wanna go to the doctors... does anyone know whats happening? please help!...

A.   27 June 2010: I don't have much experience in this, so I can't really say why it's happening. I think you should go to the doctor. This could affect your ability to have children, so why would you risk it? x... (read in full...)

Advice Please... Should I tell him how I feel or just be there for him as a friend?

Q.   well this is my problem... there's a guy and I have liked him for about a year now. At first we weren't that close but this year we have gotten a lot closer. A while ago I was talking to him on msn and when I asked him how he was he said he was d...

A.   2 February 2009: okay here's a bit of an update... he called me yesterday and he was pretty upset. he was crying and he just kept saying "i can't do it anymore" i got really worried so i went around to his house, his parents were out and he was just sitting... (read in full...)

Does she like me, or are we just good friends?

Q.   I've liked a certain girl for 2 years now. When we met, we were always arguing through emails. Half a year later, we became friends because one of her friends (who now lives in queensland) had a crush on me. The girl i like began to be very frien...

A.   21 January 2009: she definately likes you! go for it!... (read in full...)

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