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Am I just his texting friend?

Q.   Ive being txten a guy for the last month now. We txt all threw the day and he has being calling me a few times lately. We get on really well. I remember him from school but didnt know him to talk to. He is 21 and im 19. He works away from home and ...

A.   1 March 2011: hi.. if this was me i'd probably feel the same, are you both flirting in the texts or is it just general chit chat? i personally dont think a lad would waste his time texting someone he wasn't interested in... In my experience most men would only... (read in full...)

I'm shy, I'd like to make friends with this girl but unsure how to do so

Q.   Hello, I started college this school year, and have not had an easy time adjusting to it. My academics have gone well, and I love my major, but socially, I am a little lost. I recently noticed a girl occasionally glancing at me. I h...

A.   20 January 2009: In the past i have met people similar to yourself who were a little shy... What i always do when making friends is try smiling at them a few times before actually going over them try making her laugh and asking what to in your work or something at ... (read in full...)

Drunk Sex!

Q.   It was after I had been out for a few drinks with my mates, I had been texting this boy for ages and we were always talking about doing things but we never got the chance! Anyway, I was talking to him in the bar and before i know it, it was ...

A.   20 January 2009: This is hillarious!! Dont be embarrassed theres no need to be... i know its abit of a mood killer but hey so what, im sure you could arrange a ''round 2''!! wink wink haha xx... (read in full...)

Two women, one big choice!

Q.   Hi there, It's the old story: two women, who to choose? Just want some perspective. I met a girl Rachel (28) in June this year online. She is a pretty girl. We talked on MSN for a month or so and on the phone. She said that she wasn't ready fo...

A.   12 December 2007: Hiya, If i were in your shoes I would stick with Samantha. Yes, she comes with alot of baggage but I think everyone deserves a chance. Also this Rachel only seems to have shown interest now you have told her you've found someone else... No one can ... (read in full...)

My bf is very difficult and we always fight...and now there is another guy I am keen on.

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 20 months now, we have broken up once for about 2 months and then got back together. Everything was going well but he is vert difficult and we always fight about something. There is another guy that im quite keen on ...

A.   13 November 2007: I really can't believe it! i am in exactly the same shoes as you my boyfriend gets violent when he drinks and there's another guy who has really swept me off my feet. i haven't cheated with them and i couldn't forgive myself if i did but the other ... (read in full...)

He says he will get therapy but will he change??

Q.   Last week i found out that my boyfriend of 3 months cheated on me and when i confronted him he denied it he was crying hysterically and we tried to talk about it. He finally admitted to cheating once with 1 girl but claims he doesnt know what hap...

A.   13 November 2007: hi, I can tell you for definate when someone cheats it doesn't mean they are always a cheat! my friend was heartbroken when her boyfrend cheated on her but she kept forgiving him over and over and he carried on doing it until she finally said... (read in full...)

What could be going on in her head?? A women's perspective please...

Q.   Hello, Im new on here. My girlfriend broke up with me nearly two months ago. I thought we were doing fine and she just came out with it. She has ignored all my texts apart from the one that said i had some of her things and wanted to return them. Sh...

A.   13 November 2007: hi, Well i'm a woman and even i think its abit strange! it sounds like things may have got a little serious for her so she felt the need to get away. But ignoring you like that isn't on and it shouldn't be you who's feeling bad for it! From the soun... (read in full...)

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