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Her old Ex has worked himself into our lives

Q.   My girlfriend (kelly) has an ex-boyfriend (josh) from several years ago that now dates her roomate (amber) who i am also friends with but never had anything but a platonic relationship with. She (kelly) ended it with him and remained friends with ...

A.   14 August 2010: Llindy, Amber and Kelly are good friends. The only reason i havent exploded on him is because i dont want to create drama in the house and create a bad living situation for my girlfriend because of my insecurities. Thanks for the advice i was very ... (read in full...)

Is my boss just flirting, or is he interested?

Q.   I have been at my job for about 8 months now. The first 6 months it was just work between my boss and I. But the past 2 months something has changed. He calls me Blondie and no other co-worker has a nickname of any kind. He has been touchy feely. ...

A.   14 August 2010: He is flirting. Sometimes guys just flirt though. This doesn't actually mean that he wants to take it any further. Flirting may be enough for him. Let him make the first move since he is your superior, in the office anyway. ... (read in full...)

Did my boyfriend have sex with his kid's mom?

Q.   a couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend had an argument about some girls on his myspace well he decided to ignore me for the rest of that night. We talked and made good the next day, but two days later his daughters mom came by just to let me know ...

A.   14 August 2010: Chances are if he had sex with her he wont admitt it. If you think he had sex, and you know him, he probobly did. I have cheated on women in the past and that is exactly how i acted. Secretive with my phone, texting then deleting, acting like it was ... (read in full...)

Are my feelings for my ex unfair to my current boyfriend?

Q.   I have been with my current partner now for 2 years. I love him dearly and couldn't imagine life without him. But I can't help but wonder if (and please don't think this the wrong way) he isn't "The One" that everyone says he should be. The reason b...

A.   13 August 2010: There is no good way to handle this. Honestly i know what you are going through. I am young like you, and just had this same situation. The way i got through it was to slowly remove the 1st love from my life little by little. As i did this i found ... (read in full...)

My ex asked me if I was dating a girl, so I told her the truth... Was this wrong?

Q.   My ex girlfriend has asked me if I'm dating somebody. I broke up with her almost two months ago after an eight month relationship. I was her first love. Just recently I started seeing a girl (lets call her Sarah). I've only been out with Sarah t...

A.   13 August 2010: I agree with the first tow posts. If you were to let her believe you were still single she might think that you hadnt moved on and you still wanted her. You might saving her emotional problems in the long run by not stringing her along. ... (read in full...)

My own happiness or Everyone else's?

Q.   I met my husband about 2 years ago. There's no spark, no romance, and no heart pounding...but there is attraction. Very soon we started "dating", he moved in to my place and we lived like married couple, cooking together everyday and go to bed ...

A.   13 August 2010: This is a no brainer.. DONT DO IT. Dont settle and wonder the rest of your life what could have been. You deserve happiness and should not have to be stuck with someone if you dont want to be. What have you done to deserve being unhappy ... (read in full...)

Should I stay in a hotel or get an apartment while visiting friends?

Q.   I am traveling from England to California to see some high school friends I have not seen in a long time. I am traveling single, would it be best if I stayed in a hotel or motel while there, or find an apartment? I don't want to intrude, and yet I ...

A.   13 August 2010: I think if you are going to California to visit them, it would make sense that you stay with them. They may feel like you are too distant if you stay elsewhere. However you should definetly get it straight with your friends before you get on the ... (read in full...)

Guys: Would you rather a girl was honest about her sexual past?

Q.   Would guys prefer a girl who is honest about her past sexual life or is that a bad idea?...

A.   13 August 2010: I think if he straight up asks you how many people you have slept with you should tell him. Without knowing your sexual history i woul dsay that if you have a ton of partners keep it to yourself unless he asks. If you dont have many partners ( less ... (read in full...)

Why does he do this?

Q.   There's this lad- he's 17 I'm 15. He keeps telling he loves me and that he'd do anything to be with me! So I get my hopes up and then he goes and gets a girlfriend and ignores me. Then he'll come back to me a few weeks later and be like I'm sorry ...

A.   13 August 2010: Hey im a guy and i do this too. personally when i say this stuff to girls i mean it, at the time. I know that I like a girl and i tell them i really like em and want to be with them. But really i am not ready to be in a monogamous relationship. It ... (read in full...)

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