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Do you think the man I am having an affair with is seeing someone else?

Q.   Please don't judge me... I am married and am having an affair with a recently separated man. (We hooked up when he was married last year). To give a brief hx, I knew him from the past yet never hooked up. Well we did last year and had sex. I never...

A.   22 March 2011: I just wanted to Thank everyone on offering your opinion to my question. It has really helped more than you might know. After much thought, I have decided to let him go and figure out if I want to walk away from the marriage or deal with things t... (read in full...)

Emotional affairs - how did it turn out?

Q.   Please give me advice!!!! History- married 15 years to highschool sweetheart. Never dated anyone else really. I have 2 children 13 and 8. I am a very attracted women with a great career. My husband and have had out ups and downs but overall I Sm hap...

A.   21 March 2011: I am currently going through the same thing...only my story is turning out differently. I am married for 10 yrs, ended up with a guy from my past (never dated), he was married with no kids. He would call me everyday, sometimes 2-3 times a day an... (read in full...)

I'm not opposed to a threesome but I feel the girl and my man might become a little too interested in each other...

Q.   My wonderful boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. He is very good looking, in beautiful shape, great eyes, and not to mention well endowed.. So, one night this past summer, we almost had a threesome with a girl he met first, but I ...

A.   25 February 2011: No you are not being paranoid. As a fantasy, I think it is a wonderful thing, but in reality emotions (like jealousy, envy, etc.) still play a huge part. When we are in a relationship, esp as long as you two have been, feelings that you two belong ... (read in full...)

My significant other has crawled into his man cave and wont come out!

Q.   My SO he has retreated into what my sis called his "man cave" where he needs to think things through by himself and I should just leave him alone for the time being. He said it's not about us completely but he feels as if his life is about making ...

A.   25 February 2011: I have endure this similar thing. I do think there is something to be said in giving them their space and letting them figure it out. It sucks because you feel alone and empty because one minite they are here and the next they are not. If he... (read in full...)

He stopped calling me! Do I wait this out or do I call him?

Q.   my boyfriend is not calling me or texting me and i dont know what happend its been a week now ,i am afraid to call him because he might think i can not live without him ,should i call him or i must wait until he calls?please help...

A.   25 February 2011: You might want to call him or send him a text message simply asking "if everything is okay." Then wait to see if you get a reply. Good luck to you. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has transcended into a higher being, and dumped me!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and 1/2 years. We have been through sooo much together to develop this great relationship. In the beginning, we struggled because I was in the middle of another relationship. After that relationship ...

A.   25 February 2011: I think you should just say "okay" and let him go. I know it will be hard and it will be a grieving process for the loss of him, but he sounds like he thinks he is above you. Do you really want a guy like that? Again, I know the person you have ... (read in full...)

I feel unloved, both by my hubby and by the guy I had an affair with

Q.   I am married and started seeing a married man. A little bit of history... I knew him back when I was 16 (he was 21) and we worked together. He never lead on like he liked me, of course I would catch him looking at me. I totally was crushing on ...

A.   30 March 2010: Thank you everyone who replied, I was really scared to post this. I am so grateful for the words of encouragement and the different perspectives you have shown me, and above that's for not judging me. C. Grant - Yes, I've only been married ... (read in full...)

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