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When I call him..he's busy! Do I just wait for him to call me then?

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Question - (25 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

whenever i call him he is busy he never even bothers to call me back,for him his family is more important than me, but 4 me he is everything and he knows it.should i keep calling him or just wait for him to call me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007):

Oh come on. There are other fish in the sea. I have lots of girl friends, nice good people, but I don't want to date them. It clicks or it does not. Move on to the other 10 million guys.

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (26 October 2006):

Toria agony auntI'd call he can't talk because something else is more important which that could well be the case as sometimes somethings need to be dealt with there and then and can't be put off but he doesn't return your calls which isn't fair.

If he really wanted to talk to you and was interested in you he would be wanting to call you especially if you've already called him.

Hope this hopes :o)

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A female reader, bellachic385 +, writes (25 October 2006):

bellachic385 agony auntHow much do you like him? Does he know? Tell him he need to know and he will hopefully make time for you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006):

i think the reason why he has those excuses or reasons is because he is NOT really into you. whether he is your friend or bf, don't sit around and wait for his call. move on and don't feel bad that he doesn't call or return your calls. and don't even ask yourself why ? .. cheers ...

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (25 October 2006):

stina agony auntHello Anon,

Is this guy your boyfriend? If he's not, you need to give him some space.

If he is your boyfriend, then maybe he's just not at that point to where he feels the same way about you as you do about him. Also, I think it depends on what's going on with his family. If he just started acting this way, then maybe there are some family problems he has to deal with.

Honestly, I think you should just give him his space. He'll call you if and when he feels like it. You don't want to look too needy and have him feel like you're nagging him, right?

You could always just ask him what's going on - what's on his mind. Maybe just tell him you're around if he wants to talk.

Take care.

(PS - Maybe he's just bad at calling people back. There are lots of people like that.)

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