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Was he jealous about me keeping in touch with this other guy he knows?

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Question - (30 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've being friends long distance more like a crush kinda thing with this guy I met 2 years ago in a meeting. He's military and in duty while I met him. We exchange emails and phone calls, well phone calls recently. When he was here in his duty there was another military mate who after my crush left, hit-ted on me but I didn't liked him and no results what so ever came out.

I keep in touch with that guy too but not as often or as deep as with my crush. The other day while on the phone, my guy mentioned he emailed this other guy I'm talking about. I said " Oh yeah, I keep in touch with him, but once or twice a year" and that was it. He just mumbled "hm, cool". Do you think he got a bit jealous or did they spoke more Than he said they did?

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A female reader, katatonik United States +, writes (5 December 2008):

katatonik agony auntIt's possible, but maybe your crush just knows this other guy well enough to know how he is and that he would probably hit on you (which it sounds like he did) and got jealous over that. One way to find out for sure: ask him if he's bothered by the fact you communicate with this other guy on a friendly basis.

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A female reader, [email address blocked] United States +, writes (4 December 2008):

well, duh! of course he got jealous. he probably talked to the other guy about it and found out more, and asked you about it to see what you'd say, to see if he could trust u in telling him the truth or not!


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