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Walked in on friends mom breastfeeding and rather than leave made excuses to hang around

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Question - (11 June 2024) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2024)
A male United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

Hi. I go to my mates house to play fifa and sometimes his mum would cook us food or give us crisps. My mate was on the game. So when his mum shouted to get the food because she’s feeding his baby sister. When I went down I saw her with her boobs out feeding. I got so embarrassed but I couldn’t stop looking. I tried to show I wasn’t but I stupidly asked more questions as it felt could to talk just knowing. I couldn’t bear to look down.

I can’t stop thinking about it. Do you think it’s bad if I looked? I never felt like this before .

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2024):

Well you're very young and hormones rage at that age. You're not used to looking at bare breasts so it's understandable that you got embarrassed.

I guess your friend's mother didn't worry too much about it so try to put it out of your mind.

Sexual urges can be overwhelming so remember that when you find a girl you like. It's not just sexual attraction that matters, it's whether the person makes us happy in general.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2024):

The reason a lot of women will not feed their babies in public is because there are childish, immature, silly, perverted sex starved guys wanting to get a thrill at their expense.... I could mention one but don't know your name.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2024):

In some primitive societies it is pretty normal to breastfeed babies in public.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2024):

Just join the 50% of the human population who think it's sexual. Kind of taboo but fascinating!

In fact you've got it all wrong. Breast feeding is a survival mechanism for babies.

But others like to read more into it.

Of course you 're embarrassed.

You walked in on his mum breast feeding her child and she didn't need an audience ....but get over it.

It's over and done.

You can grow up and learn to have more manners!

Next time you find yourself in an embarrassing situation just say : "excuse me!" And leave.

But don't make a drama out of it.

You're still very young and boys of your age are known to say and do daft things.

It's about as bad as farting loudly at the dinner table and then saying: 'It wasn't me!'

Not an unsolvable or universal problem.

It's nowhere near as bad as drunk driving and crashing.

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (11 June 2024):

Myau agony auntYour a male. Your meant to look.

Also your in your peak horney phase. So I can hardly blame you.

Dont beat yourself up about it.

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