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writes:Well my bf and I decided to split cuzz im 16 and he 21. Its safer. I love him alot, I would do anything for him! We planned on gettn back together when I turn 18, we still see each other and call each other! Just like were still dating. But I dnt wanna wait to be with him. Its hard because I know if we got back together it probable wouldnt be the same. Idk if I should just move on or wait for him like we originally planned?Thanks:)
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 November 2011):
 I'm willing to bet you two broke up because he was either getting a lot of flack for dating you, or he's at the legal age of drinking (going to bars with his buddies), and you can't even get past the club door.
It's really best to move on. 2 years is a long time to wait, do you think he's going to wait as well? I highly doubt it. Also, it's not very fair for you to wait around for him while he moves on to date other girls. You're not bound to him, there's no reason for you to wait.
Accept this break-up due to the age difference and move on to date other guys closer to your age.
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reader, Abella +, writes (26 November 2011):
 Who made thbe decision to break up? It sounds like it has been difficult for you to deal with not having him as close as before. One party must have wanted the break more than the other. If he wanted the break then this does not auger well for the future. He could have stayed with you and been a gentleman about it.Yes, continue to be polite to him. But don't put your life on Hold.That would not be good for you. Get out and do some things that lift your spirits.Especially plan to be as busy and involved in lots of happy things over Christmas and the New Year. Join some groups that do good things - volunteer on a project. Find out if there isa walking group you could join either learn a new skill You need some good people and some good experiences to get over this break.It is never easy for the one who loved the other party in a relationship. Be very kind to you at all times.
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (26 November 2011):
 I agree that you should move on. If he really wanted to be with you when your 18, he would stay in the relationship and simply wait until your 18 to move forward in the relationship. I think he is simply trying to let you down easy and to keep you hanging around until he decides that he has found someone else and it's going to work out with that person. Move on and if you are meant to be together in the future, you will be. But don't wait around for him, it will only lead to heartche for you. Good Luck.
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reader, kandykane +, writes (26 November 2011):
Move on, he probably will
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 November 2011):
Move on from him. He's going to move on anyway.
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