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My friend and I are both interested in the same girl - what should I do?

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Question - (18 January 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2013)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, so i got kind of typical question, but i haven't been able to find a good answer, as it is kind of different.

Ok, so i like this girl who is a junior, she's cute, but i have a friend who also likes her too. Now my question is: would she be interested I'm me (a freshman) or my friend? And my second question is that of so, do II ask her out, or let my friend try, I've liked her since the beginning if school, but my friend just reverently started liking her. And one last question; do i go and introduce my self or have one odd my junior friends to introduce me?

Thanks guys

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (18 January 2013):

kenny agony auntThere is no reason why she would not be interested in you atal. Go for it, talk to her, ask her to do something one time. Don't wait for your friend to do it, you could lose out, and don't let your friend introduce you to her, this will make you look unconfident. Don't worry about treading on your freinds toes here, its not like he is dating her and you are contemplating asking her out. Just get in there, strike while the iron is hot, ask her out and see what happens, no time like the present.

Good luck

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (18 January 2013):

1. How would anyone here know who she's interested in? You gave no relevant info to know one way or another.

2. There is no reason for you to decide for her who she likes. You can both go after her and if she likes one of you that's her choice.

3. Introduce yourself. Don't have your friend do it that's childish.

Be brave, ask her out and don't worry about your friend.

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