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Is this stringing him along?

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Question - (23 July 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2016)
A female Norway age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it wrong of me to accept help from a guy who was interested in me before? Im not sure if he is still interested or not, I have not spoken to him for two years. Just happened to run into him, and he offered to help me when I mentioned I was in the process of moving.

Im not ready for a new relationship right now, and don't want to use him or string him along. He hasn't asked me my relationship status, and I have no idea of his either.

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A female reader, Ivyblue Australia +, writes (24 July 2016):

Ivyblue agony auntNo I don't think so either. Two years is a while, but still he could see it as an opportunity for something more or as Honeypie said, or not. Chances are it will rekindle some sort of friendship and it would seem a bit weird to have him help and say sayonara for good. If you get the feeling or he asks out right anything romantic just tell him otherwise. Surely he cant expect a relationship in turn for doing a nice gesture?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (23 July 2016):

Honeypie agony auntI don't think it qualify as stringing along. Now he MAY (or may not) be hoping for more than a thank you... afterwards, he might just be a nice guy.

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