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Is my boyfriend's dirty laundry a sign of him cheating?

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Question - (28 May 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

This morning i put on a wash and noticed a medium amount of white stain in my fiances underwear at the top of the pile. Excluding masturbation (as i was around him most of the day), can anyone tell me what this is? He did have a shower before he went to his physio ... she worked on his back. Theres nothing really wrong with him but he refers his clients to this physio and she does an hour (sometimes more) a week for free on him. Anyway, stained underwear this morning... not so much for a full ejaculation but not so little to be normal. Am i being paranoid to think it a sign of cheating? We havent had sex in a few days and he hasnt been masturbating. Also he has diarreah the past few days, would this stimulate the prostate?

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A male reader, no nonsense Aidan United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2016):

Maybe he did masturbate when you weren’t around. Maybe he leaked a bit, perhaps during a sleep (perhaps because he’s not had sex or masturbated in a few days). Pre-cum could explain it, as Ivyblue said. Something could still have aroused him, which could well have been thoughts of you. Who knows! But if he was cheating, he’s not exactly covered his tracks very well. These things can just happen. I would say you have absolutely nothing at all to worry about.

I wish you all the very best.

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A female reader, miss frank United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2016):

What makes you think he hasn't masturbated? Or gotten excited at something and had an erection?

I'd there any other clue's that would make you think he is cheating?

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A female reader, Ivyblue Australia +, writes (28 May 2016):

Ivyblue agony auntI doubt it. From what you have posted he may of enjoyed that massage a bit more than usual today, pre cum. As for him not masturbating, how do you know that he hasn't? Not being a smart arse but I don't advertised to my spouse each time I do. Having diarreah is probably more likely the reason he has not been wanting sex. I wouldn't be stressing myself, not yet anyway.

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