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I'm so shy, I don't think that I will be able to start talking to him and I also have a feeling like he is also too shy.

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Question - (29 February 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

It a very long story but I'll try to make it as short as I can. There is this guy in my college that I really like. He already knows it because my friend asked him on facebook what he thinks of me and he said he thinks i'm nice but he doesn't know me too well. He does many weird things when he's around me. When we are in one place between us there is this arkward feeling, we just somehow cannot start talking. I also noticed that he follows me around school and stares at me all the time.

They are not that kind of evil stares he has half smile on his face and he doesn't frown. His friends look at me as well a lot more than they should. Yesterday he even opened the door for me and smiled... I'm so shy, I don't think that I will be able to start talking to him and I also have a feeling like he is also too shy... Do you think he might like me? Please help!

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A female reader, Deagan United States +, writes (1 March 2012):

Deagan agony auntOkay, so you both are shy, and the most interaction between the two of you has been smiling and him opening the door for you.

You're not going to get very far at this rate.

If you both are shy, then nothing is going to happen. Someone has to initiate conversation.

You can open up conversation by thanking him for opening the door for you, and telling him that it was very sweet of him. Hopefully his shyness will not get in the way and he will try and keep the conversation going.

I can not stress enough that you need to try and get past this shyness, because he replied to a facebook message saying "he doesn't know you very well."

Get to know each other. Looks like you have something in common- college. Talk about classes, favorite subjects, etc... just get the ball rolling.

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A male reader, Uncle PJ  +, writes (1 March 2012):

Uncle PJ agony auntIt does sound like there's a mutual likeness between you and this guy. But you shouldn't throw yourself at him, although I'm not thinking you would.

What kind of weird things does he do? That awkward feeling does tend to happen when the two of you both want to say something but neither know what to say. The easiest thing to do to try and get over your shyness is maybe go with your group of girls and go up to him and his group of guys. let the girls strike up a conversation with the other guys and help that feeling of ease allow to try and strike up a conversation with him. Starting off with the usual hi, how's you? should be fine and it should also break the ice. Once that ice has been broken you should hopefully find it easier to talk to him more. Good luck and I wish you all the best with this guy. Hope this helps.

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