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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): go for it mate...you only live once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): I don't think you truly love your girlfriend. I think you're confusing your feelings of obligated attachment with that of love. Many people fall into those sort of emotions - just because you're together with someone intimately, doesn't necessarily mean you love that person.
Ultimately, you choose what you want, even if it hurts someone.
For those who may get riled up about what I just said, please note that this kid doesn't seem like his mentality and persona is solid enough to realize what love really is. Better to break hearts now and filter out the wants and nots than to find that out later in life.
In other words, it's called "Trial & Error" - aka "dating".
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reader, bonym  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 If you truly love your girlfriend then dont allow lust to take up any room in this relationship. You may fancy this girl my friend but is it worth risking a relationship for the sake of lust? NO. xXx
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reader, chirpychicken +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Stop right now...you will only hurt your girlfriend and probably split up their family as well.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Absolutely nothing which involves her sister!!! I know you feel like going off with the sister is the right thing to do and it may feel like it is but trust me, it will only cause pain and upset for everyone involved.
Mates and relatives of the one you're with are an absolute no-no, even when you've split with your partner. It's the unwritten rule!! Imagine if your girlfriend left you for your mate or brother? How would you feel? Trust me, no one will come out on top here.
Not only will problems be caused for you, the sisters might start arguing too and you don't want to be in the middle of something like that! If you don't want to be with your girlfriend anymore, finish it, but do not under any circumstances go near her sister, now or ever.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (15 June 2006):
 I think you need to realise that your feelings for your gfs sister seem to be purely lust and that what you have with your gf isnt worth throwing away for that. Just imagine the pain you could cause your gf if you did anything at all.
Rather than forget them totally though try and refocus them. Plan a special night for you and your gf, spoil her rotten; demonstrate how much you feel, make it fun and rekindle the love you two share. Hope that helps.
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (15 June 2006):
Get a grip...if 'fancy' her but you 'love' your girlfriend. Do you know what a devastativing blow it would be to the woman you love if something were to happy between her partner and her sister? My advice: forget about it.
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