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I love her but I'm scared to be honest with her about how I feel and what I want from us.

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Question - (30 September 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

i love my girlfriend more than ive ever told her,she is always telling me how happy she is an wants to be my wife,so why am i so scared to be honest with her and avoid answering her marriage question.lately i have been searching her computer looking for any dating sites that she has looked at and accused her of talking to men,whats happening to me?today i ended our 2 year relationship.

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A female reader, lovett_23 +, writes (30 September 2006):

I think that you do love your girlfriend, but the thought of marriage is driving you bananas. You want to be with her, but maybe you're just not ready for marriage. If you really love her then telling her the truth is what this is all about. It is ok to let her know that you will be with her, but you are not thinking about marriage. After 2 years you would think that you would be able to be honest with her. Yeah, it may hurt her feelings, but at least the both of you will feel better. Trust me you are not the first man to be afraid of marriage and you are certainly not the last. If you want the lady back then I suggest you go and get her because she does not deserve to be treated like that.

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A female reader, helpmeunderstand +, writes (30 September 2006):

you love her and by the sounds of it she loves you!there is nottin' to be afraid of!if you want to drive her away forever keep on doin' what your doin'!if not ring her and tell her how you feel!trust me it will work!all you have to do is find your convidence in her!good luck!

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):

Toria agony auntYou love her and know you want to be with her with a future together therefore it probably scares you that because you hold so many strong feelings for her that she may come along and hurt you, that could be why you are looking for something on her computer so you can know now to save the hurt being more later on in the relationship.

If you want to marry her and she keeps asking you why don't you surprise her and set everything up to propose to her, will show her your doing it because you want it all aswell and not because she wore you down with constant asking.

Good luck :o)

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