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I didn't like her until my friend started to date her.

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Question - (12 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My friend is going out with this girl that i used to like. i didn't like her until my friend started dating her. What do i do?

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A female reader, MissUnique United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2008):

MissUnique agony auntMaybe you didn't realise that you liked her until she was taken, or you only want her because you can't have her. Either way, don't do anything, if he really is your friend and you're willing to risk it, then do nothing. If they break up and you still like her, ask your friend (and tell him to tell the truth) if it would be ok for you to ask her out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

I answered a similar question earlier. Don't interfere with the relationship as it could ruin your friendship with both of them. You will probably move on and find someone new, but if not, teenage relationships don't often last very long so your chance will come.

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntyou can't like her that much otherwise you would have been intrested before your mayte started to date her it always goes you only want what you can't have. you only want this girl because now shes offlimits so the best thing to do is go out and find someone u genuinely are intrested in

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