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He shows me love and affection then he is just my friend..whats going on??

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Question - (30 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2006)
A female , *elfela writes:

i love a guy who sometimes shows me affection and love while other times we become just friends sometimes he doesn't answer my calls he tells me everything about his life but i don't know if he loves me or not can you help me please for god sake?

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A female reader, pebbam +, writes (1 October 2006):

Maybe the best way is to ask him. You need to know where you stand and the only way to find out is to ask you. Perhaps sometimes he thinks you could be more than good friends and when you listen to him he might be feeling love for you. There is a chance though that he changes his mind the next day and doesnt know what to say so he ignores your calls. He might like you and doesnt want to push it just incase you dont feel the same. He might not want to ruin your good friendship and so he feels guilty and doesnt respond.

Best way is to ask him where you stand

good luck and remember being friends can be more special than actual love


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A female reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):

Toria agony auntWell he could be showing love and affection as he is craving that attention back from someone but really you are just friends and thats the way he wants it to stay, or he could be showing you love and affection because thats how he really feels and does the friends thing because he is worried you are wanting the same from him.

Talk to him, only way you will know whats going on and to know where you truely stand with him.

Good luck :o)

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