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He never has time for me so I broke up several times, but I want him back again! I need your advice.

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Question - (18 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been seeing someone for 6 months now and he never has time for me between his 2 jobs and maintaing his bod.

I have never met family of friends or been to his residence and have went out a few times. I told him because of this it was over several times and he just ends up back in my life. This last time I confirmed it was finally over

Days later I saw him with another women. I confronted him and he said when you told me it was over this last tome I took it serious and began seeing someone else. Im so hurt because I really love this man and Im hoping it was not his wife and I have been a fool all this time. This may sound crazy but I want him back. I need advice bad.

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A female reader, luvy duvy United States +, writes (30 November 2008):

luvy duvy agony auntOkay...are you sure your not in lust. People confuse it for love all the time. Lust is nothing more than just a physical attraction. Love is like so much more it would take pages to explaine it.

You say that he like to maintaine his body. you love him fully inside and out...or that hot stuff on the outside that drives you crazy in bed?

And, he sounds like a player to me. So, forget about him...your just running back because you may still be emotionally attached to him, but it's normal after brake ups. FORGET HIM!! you'll find someone else!

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