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Does it mean he doesn't like me?

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Question - (14 August 2022) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2022)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am going out on a date with a guy for a month now, but on the dating app to other girl he was saying he is great in bed, he has a huge dick, he is very good in bed, experienced and was flirting with her left and right, and said that he wants to hook up with her and that he will give her a best orgasm in the world, and he said he has been hooking up with girls and he has great experience, that he can cum 4 times in a row with 5 minute breaks in between. And he said the same thing to the 2nd girl as well. He was very explicit and naughty


He told me he has insecurities and one of his insecurity is he has a small dick, And asked me if I like big or small, but on a date when we were holding hands he got turned on and made me touch him, he was huge. And I asked him why he said he is small when he is huge, he replied "I don't know". Then he started talking about having sex with me, I said I am inexperienced and not ready yet. And when I asked him he said he did not have sex in a long time, and never hooked up with anybody. He also said to me "I am not sure if I am good in bed but I will do my best to please you. And I want to have sex with you so bad." He texts me every day.

My question is why would he say different things to me. Is that because he doesn't like me? And expecting me to say "Oh you are not good then, so I will not go out with you anymore"? I am confused.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (21 August 2022):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntHe's a player. He is telling each girl what he thinks it will take to get her into bed. He's also probably a decent "people reader" so can tell what lines will work with which girls.

Walk away. You deserve better. He's just after a roll in the sheets.

I suspect he DOES put it about quite a bit, in which case you really don't know what you could catch from him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2022):

It's clear he is just after casual sex. Too mean to pay prostitutes and too ugly, boring, nasty and selfish to be able to get someone otherwise. Still interested?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (18 August 2022):

Honeypie agony auntI think he is trying to sound like he isn't a man-whore to you because you are inexperienced.

If you aren't looking for something sexual and probably very CASUAL - I would move on to someone else.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2022):

You have huge insecurities and lack of confidence and judgment if you still want this guy. What do you see in him? He is arrogant, uses people, manipulative, deceitful, selfish.

Anyway you were probably far too quick to have sex with him because he does not see you as a proper girlfriend, he acts as if he is totally single but has sex with you too.

As for I want to have sex with you so bad.

He does not care who it is with, so long as it's a good looking young female and he doesnt have to pay. Its not because it is you. He is just as keen on the other one. You already told us that.

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A female reader, RitaBrown United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2022):

This guy sounds like a classic player who's just after sex with as many women as possible.

Accomplished players vary their approach according to the type of women they're trying to get into bed.

Since you've told him you're inexperienced he's trying a softer insecure puppy-dog approach because he thinks that's the kind of thing you want to hear.

This guy is still playing the field and players usually bring confusion and heartbreak.

Throw him back in the sea.

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