New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244965 questions, 1084303 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Been chatting and emailling with a girl... What's a good time to ask her to dinner?

Tagged as: Online dating<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (30 March 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2006)
A male , *opeless Romantic writes:

I met a girl on the internet recently, and we have been emailing back and forth for the last few weeks. We have this thing going where we ask the other person 20 questions with each email, and then they answer them and send 20 of their own when they reply. We've spoken on the phone a few times, she's called me a couple of times and I've called her a couple of times.

Yesterday, I had some flowers delivered to her at home, with the message "Just a little something to brighten up your day". She called me last night, and neither of us barely mentioned them, just her making a joke about the companies name (easyflowers). My question is this: How long now should I wait until I ask her to have dinner with me? Any advice would be much appreciated. Many thanks,

Hopeless Romantic.

View related questions: flowers, the internet

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, bodylotion +, writes (30 March 2006):

bodylotion agony auntFirst of all whats the age gap?If it is O.T.T. then don't bother with it but if you are the same age then go for it.You know enough about each other so the next thing is to meet up.But don't be surprised when you meet if she's not what you expected.Good luck with this woman and i hope you have a GREAT! date.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, tux United States +, writes (30 March 2006):

tux agony auntGo for it. But here is a few tips.. Do not meet her having high expectations on how she'd look or how things will go. It's not fair to her or yourself. If you go in with high expectations, they normally are never good enough.

I've never had many problems except the times I do go in with high expectations. but dont fret too much about it.. if it happens. it happens.

<-- Rate this answer


A female reader, Hopeful +, writes (30 March 2006):

Hopeful agony auntI would ask her to dinner now. I think that the longer you hold it off, the harder and scarier it is going to be.

I think you give her a call and ask her if she is free to catch up for a meal.

It sounds like you have built up a good friendship that could be the start of something more so I would ask her soon.

<-- Rate this answer


Add your answer to the question "Been chatting and emailling with a girl... What's a good time to ask her to dinner?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft