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Am I worrying over nothing... or is he cheating?

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Question - (29 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Me and my husband have been together for nine years and married for two. We have three kids together all under the age of five. Hhe is in the military and recently went to do training in a different state. He started talking to a girl and lied to me about it when he got home, he said nothing happened and he loves me and wants to be with me. I always have this feeling that something isn't right and he is up to something. He is always hiding stuff from me and not talking to me. He will be deploying so and I just want to know if he is cheating on me or not. So I guess my question is does it sound like a cheater or am I taking this too far and worryng about nothing?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008):

Ahhh the good old military. My husband just came home couple months age. If you love him stay and see how thangs are when he returns. He wont be the same man, but their is always hope! Councelling if need be, which is never a negative thing. And the military pays for it somthing to keep in mind.

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A female reader, lil'shade United States +, writes (30 November 2008):

If he had nothing to hide he would show you everything. As him about it or try to look through his stuff I wouldn't trust that.

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A female reader, luvy duvy United States +, writes (29 November 2008):

luvy duvy agony auntYour an army have evry right to worry, but if you can't shake the feeling you should talk to him about it. It shouldn't anger him when you bring it up because it should click somewhere in his mind that she is talking about this because she doesn't want the family to go through anything, he should be happy that you care, and he should be very calm about it when you ask him about it...and yes, he does sound like a cheater.

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