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I really love him and need to tell him!!!

Q.   Hi There I hope you can help me. Well what it is... I'm totally in love with this boy but he doesn't know about it and I really wanna tell him but I dunno how to coz it's pretty embarrassing in case he doesen't like me :( I've known him for a w...

A.   6 December 2008: Are you friends with this guy, or don't really know each other? If you don't, like everyone else says, just invite him out and see how things go. If you do know him, don't say you "love" him but just kind of say you think you have feelings for him. ... (read in full...)

I feel I never see her... am I best moving on here?

Q.   I don't know really how to explain the situation, it's really kinda complicated this might be a little long but I'm not sure really what to do, I'll try to explain it as best as I can. I met this girl last year around this time. At the time she ...

A.   5 December 2008: Similar thing happened to me, she left me for another guy and I let her go (we weren't really in a "relationship" either, because I wasn't ready to commit after having been out of a long relationship) then she got mad why i let her go, I'll cling on ... (read in full...)

To chase or let go?

Q.   For those who like someone: If I like a girl how do I tell the difference between she enjoying the chase and her simply not interested in me? 1) If she likes the chase would it be safe to say that if she is talking to me when she wants in ...

A.   3 December 2008: 1) I'll say yes. But it might just be as a person, not necessarily romantic. Either way, it's worth a try, at least you gain a friend. 2) Not necessarily true either...if she's not someone close already like a friend or something, it might be that... (read in full...)

Should I go back just to make him happy?

Q.   Hi there, I was in a relationship which lasted for 2 months, as time went by I realised that he is not what I wanted (being with him), so I decided to call it off, when I told him my decision he was very absent confused, fustrated and said that if I ...

A.   1 December 2008: I think otherwise. you've only known the guy for two months, i think he's exaggerating but it seems like you're unsure don't know him enough yet to see where it might go. if this guy in fact does love you enough, why not see where it goes ... (read in full...)

Does my ex hate me or does he love me? Any advice?

Q.   Does my ex still loves me ? that is my question and my problem right. We were in a relationship for 2 years on and off. We have been through a lot. Depression, we've even been to the police but after that we forgave each other. the police scene...

A.   1 December 2008: If he's really WITH that girl, not in a confused state, then let him go while you still don't hate him too much. It might be that he's just contacting you cause he doesn't know when you might contact him, so if you take the initiative and tell him ... (read in full...)

Is My Friend Being Used?

Q.   I have an aquaintance, a 51 year old guy, who in my opinion is being made a fool of. 3 years ago His wife of 25 years left him for his best friend. He met a woman around his age shortly after. They have been on and off for about 3 years.... it's alw...

A.   1 December 2008: I disagree, except that if you're a real friend tell him what you think and also about the records. It might be that he is just tolerating the behavior as well without putting in too much meaning into it - I mean, seems like he's old enough for ... (read in full...)

What can I say to him to minimize the hurt?

Q.   I feel very upset and down in the dumps over my ex. We split up 6 months ago, he ended things because we weren't socially compatible (I like going out and he doesn't!). I was gutted and fought for him to take me back, coming up with solutions, and ...

A.   30 November 2008: Ask what he wants first before you meet him. There's nothing you guys cannot resolve over the phone, and as this is a very sensitive issue and all of you are probably extremely emotional at this point, meeting without anything certain is not gonna ... (read in full...)

Why do you catch so much hell as a mistress?

Q.   HELLO Ladies and Gents, I have a question when you are the mistress why do you catch so much hell. I have been involved with my friend for about two years now and i love him very much and will do anything for him. But this is my problem in the b...

A.   30 November 2008: He's caught in a limbo. Been there myself. And he's right, you probably will be the one that walks away if anyone does. So be firm and walk away, he'll probably come begging at your feet. (That's what I did). Make yourself unavailable and say you ... (read in full...)

I'm an emotional basketcase here! Need advice on how to recup from this break up!

Q.   I'm in an emotional mess and slowly moving on from for all I know, the messiest break up that I have ever heard of happening to anyone. I'm in a doctorate program in a small college town meaning my society of friends are extremely small. Being a f...

A.   28 November 2008: Hi, it's been a while and I'm a bit better but still not quite. I've been seeing a counsellor and also mood enhancers. In hindsight, I realize both of us had our faults. I would like to know extremely what her bf would think, thing is there's no way ... (read in full...)

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