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| | *rtisticBiscuit's profile:I'm nothing special. yeah.
I like to help others turn unhappy faces into smiles again.
MY FAVOURITE QUOTE "Everything is going to be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end."
You can message me any problems, don't even have to be about relationships.
I'm from England. Taken with boyfriend go me. lol
What makes me tick...sorry I am not a clock. Well tap dancing does and making others smile.
What qualifies me to help people is nothing written down on paper. No actual qualifications for this. Just sheer determination to make this world a better place. |
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He seems to be losing interest in me
Q. Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years now we have a 1 yr old daughter together the problem is he seems to have lost interest in me I'm no different from when I had our daughter I'm the same size as I was pre pregnancy he is always ...
A. 7 July 2016: Your boyfriend could be finding that raising a child is challenging. It's not that he doesn't love you, it's that having a child isn't what he expected. That's one idea to consider as he's thinking of other options. Having time away from your d... (read in full...)
My co-worker reminds me of my ex and that's not a bad thing
Q. I don't have a major problem, but something that's constantly disconcerting. I've recently started a new job and my colleague, who is training me, reminds me hugely of an ex boyfriend of mine. The sound of his voice and his personality: smart, ...
A. 6 July 2016: You've got to think to yourself the ex didn't work out for a reason. This co-worker would be similar to that old relationship.
You can still be a friend to this co-worker. For all you know this co-worker might not like you in that love way. Onl... (read in full...)
We have a child yet he won't commit
Q. Hi everyone I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now we have a 1 yr old daughter the problem is that as far as our relationship is going to go he wants no more children and marriage he won't even discuss he says he scared I've asked him about ...
A. 4 June 2016: He could be scared of the change. Maybe he see's life going good as it is. One child is a lot of work as it is. Maybe in a few years when your child is older more kids would be easier. He could be finding raising one child demanding and ... (read in full...)
Why do we no longer have sex?
Q. Im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and have been for 2 and a half years we have lived together for one. Were both incredibly happy and are very affectionate towards one another. All is going well except for one thing ... sex. In the ...
A. 4 June 2016: Nobody is saying you have to have sex. If you're happy without it then you don't need to force it into your relationship. If you miss it, then speak to your partner about it. One a fortnight is actually a lot of sex. Some people have lower s... (read in full...)
Feeling obsessed and desperate. Who really is my baby's Daddy?
Q. Hello there, I am really hoping someone can help me here with some advise and no judgment. I am 31 years old and married for 5 years. My husband and I share a daughter that is 3 years old. Last year we are having a lot of trouble in our marriage ...
A. 30 May 2016: Really simple answer... do a paternity test to see if your husband is the father. If he's not then you know it's the other guy.
You don't even need to tell your husband if you don't wish to... just get the DNA secretly. Either way your husband ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's behaviour has left me feeling confused. How do I make sense of this? Help !
Q. I am so confused about my boyfriend's behaviour lately. We've been together for nearly six months and everything has been great. He's really sweet and loving. He always makes an effort and plans dates. He's a proper gentleman, always pays. For Va...
A. 30 May 2016: p.s. everyone prefers their own place. It's got their stuff there. It's more familiar to them.
don't worry about that.
Be happy he chose you as girlfriend. It's not like he is ignoring you all together. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's behaviour has left me feeling confused. How do I make sense of this? Help !
Q. I am so confused about my boyfriend's behaviour lately. We've been together for nearly six months and everything has been great. He's really sweet and loving. He always makes an effort and plans dates. He's a proper gentleman, always pays. For Va...
A. 30 May 2016: Don't worry my bf and I did the same. We used to phone each other a lot. Now we don't and only see each other weekends.
If it really bothers you how it's changing with texts, talk the boyfriend about it.
Don't send the letter, it will only see... (read in full...)
Will I ever measure up to his ex?
Q. I've been dating a nice guy for 4 months now. I really have a lot of feelings for him and we have a great connection. There is a big issue though. He got out of a serious 7 year relationship about 6 months before we met. I knew about this from ...
A. 30 May 2016: You don't have to measure up to this ex. Be the best person you can be. He has memories with the ex, they're good friends. People have special friends. He's chosen you over his ex. Something about his old relationship didn't work out. Be... (read in full...)
Why does my heart warm up when I see my ex? What's up with my current relationship?
Q. I am now into my third year of a wonderful relationship. We got together about 6 months after breaking up with my daughters father, which was a very turbulent time. Some his fault, but I admit, I never made things easy by cheating several times(he...
A. 29 May 2016: Because he's your daughters dad. It's the fact you've been through so much with him.
You've not made a child yet with you new boyfriend. You probably see your child you love in your ex.
Or you're guilty for cheating and wish that never happen... (read in full...)
Should I tell my best friend this secret about her boyfriend?
Q. Hello aunt Advice needed!! I was catching up with an old high school friend, we were very close but we lost contact now in college were close again. We decided to go have a girls night, during the dinner she asked about my best friend and vice ...
A. 28 May 2016: Tell your best what you think is going on. You don't have to get involved with drama. Simply state you don't want anyone getting hurt.
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Is my friend is being passive-aggressive, or am I being sensitive?
Q. I've known my friend (we'll call him Ron) for almost 4 years. We met during the first year of university. I met a wonderful man (we'll call him Thomas) during my summer exchange program in another country. Over the past 1.5 years, I've been in a l...
A. 28 May 2016: I get the feeling Ron is looking out for you and doesn't want you to get hurt.
OR he also has feelings for you (strong friendship) and doesn't want you to be so far away.
He has to accept this and work on ways to keep in contact.
You're goin... (read in full...)
I think I've found my soul mate too early
Q. I want experience in the world. I'm just turned 18 and have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, the first boyfriend I ever had. He's had a couple of relationships before me and is now wanting to settle down and I don't know what to ...
A. 28 May 2016: It's exciting to want to settle down and be secure with each other. You have to talk to your boyfriend about it. It's not like you don't want to settle down, just not right now. Maybe go on holiday together and create memories. If you can pl... (read in full...)
What is the best way to tell our family about our relationship and our plans? Should we mention how long we've dated?
Q. Modnote added: for those who want to understand the relationship:http://lifehacker.com/second-cousins-once-removed-and-more-explained-in-1661572056 (c)Copyright Alice J Ramsay Jan 1987 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I am a 31 years old ma...
A. 28 May 2016: Be like:
"Family you know (insert her name here), well for the past 2 years we've been seeing each other more than friends. Don't get mad. I can't help my feelings. I know this is a lot to take in.
I don't want anyone to get angry but, if you have... (read in full...)
What is the best way to tell our family about our relationship and our plans? Should we mention how long we've dated?
Q. Modnote added: for those who want to understand the relationship:http://lifehacker.com/second-cousins-once-removed-and-more-explained-in-1661572056 (c)Copyright Alice J Ramsay Jan 1987 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I am a 31 years old ma...
A. 28 May 2016: Be spontaneous and creative with it.
Create a video about it and sit people you wish to tell down to watch it.
If your family love you they'd support you. Introduce her slowly. e.g. invite her over for a family meal etc..
Plan long term ... (read in full...)
How do I keep a healthy balanced perspective on my finances?
Q. Sorry, this isn't really a relationship question, but it's really weighing on me. I'm fairly young (or maybe 30 isn't considered that young anymore), I have no debt and as of a couple months ago had low 6 figures of savings. With all that said, I...
A. 28 May 2016: Set aside some money for a rainy day. Or when you make no income.
Don't worry too much about money or it will make you ill.
You need to stop living by books and figures and start living for enjoyment of life.
It's good that you've got a bu... (read in full...)
It's a secret I've not told my long term friend. How do I reveal my autism to her?
Q. I've been friends with a girl from high school for many years and I have a secret I haven't told her about me. That I have autism and I can't find the right words to say or explain it to her, and as I've autism my words get cross wired and some...
A. 28 May 2016: Perhaps when you do have an issue where you fumble with words or something, say sorry it's my autism...
OR casually slip it into the conversation.
Then if they pick up on it and start talking about it... say oh I thought you knew... or own up yo... (read in full...)
Should I stop cooking for my Bf after what he did? Any suggestions on how to get him to appreciate me more?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, living together for 1 year. He can be super sweet, loyal and sensitive and we have a lot in common... but sometimes he can just 'lose it.' Though he would never be violent he has lost his temper over ...
A. 28 May 2016: Have you considered recording his behaviour, like when he goes into a strop and kicks a wall?
Show him how he acts and how it's not acceptable.
It may make him see that what he does isn't great.
If he real cared about you he'd want to wor... (read in full...)
Should I stop cooking for my Bf after what he did? Any suggestions on how to get him to appreciate me more?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, living together for 1 year. He can be super sweet, loyal and sensitive and we have a lot in common... but sometimes he can just 'lose it.' Though he would never be violent he has lost his temper over ...
A. 28 May 2016: Dear anon female, You need to sit down with him and talk to him about how you feel. Perhaps try getting him involved in the cooking. Or choose what to eat. i.e. he goes and buys what he wants for dinner or picks a recipe. Don't do his... (read in full...)
Should I hand my co-worker a note saying that I like him and would like to get to know him better?
Q. I like one of my co-workers.We work in completely unrelated departments.(we don't have work-related contact) However, we seem to run into each other walking in and out of conference rooms, hallways ,elavotors and staff rooms. He now always make it a ...
A. 28 May 2016: Do what your heart is telling you to do.
The more you overthink it, the less likely you will ever do it.
The worst thing he's do is throw away the note.
You could ask other colleagues what they think you should do.
Work relationships ... (read in full...)
Do I take a chance on my friend who is being flaky or just move on?
Q. Me and my friend decided to be more than friends , yesterday i got some plans mixed up and messaged him saying i couldnt meet friday he didnt see the message straight away but 2 mins later i told him it was ok to still see each other and he saw id ...
A. 28 May 2016: Did he 100% say he was going to meet you before you mixed up and cancelled?
It's part of life to have people have prior engagements.
So he goes fishing instead of seeing you. There is plenty of time for you both to meet up another day.
He... (read in full...)
I feel like I've lost a friend and its making me feel very confused
Q. I'm in a situation where I don't know where to begin and it's hard to explain, I'll try to make as much sense as I can with it so bare with me. I like this female at work, she likes me and we seem to get on well, she's a temporary worker and want ...
A. 28 May 2016: You are not wrong for feeling this way. You've put time into this friendship and now it's not as active as it once was. Very understandable to be upset by this. Of course talking to someone so often you will get attached. You're dream to me s... (read in full...)
I need help dealing with my sexuality, relationships, and love! Help!
Q. So I have a complicated relationship type thing with this guy I've been seeing for over 6 months here's the story and the problem. I met this guy back in September he was like the 3rd guy I met and we had a great connection. When we slept togethe...
A. 28 May 2016: I think if he really loved you he'd end it with the relationship he already is in. If he doesn't want to cheat or not be with you then why is he still with the other person? I would go on a date with this new guy and see how he makes you fee... (read in full...)
My life has slumped and I feel isolated.
Q. So many things are wrong I can't solve any of them and its affecting my wellbeing. I'm in my mid 40's. 5 years ago my husband left me and for a while I had no where to live and no car. I had to re-locate and as a result have lived in three ...
A. 28 May 2016: I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. I've heard a pet can help people who are lonely. If you're too poor to afford one you could try looking after other people's pets while they're away. You can even make money from doing this: http://www.... (read in full...)
Is wanting a relationship normal, even if you don't even know what it's like to be loved?
Q. Hi guys! So I haven't been on this site in years but I find myself needing advice again. My birthday is in a couple of days and im just feeling so lonely, just another year passing without any change. I've never been in love or had a boyfriend ...
A. 28 May 2016: Hi there. First off you are not alone in how you are feeling. It's part of growing up. There are so many people out there just like you, not having experienced anything sexual and so on... Your time will come. You have to go out there and expe... (read in full...)
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