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My dad was a married woman's other guy for only a few weeks (about a decade before my mum met him), then realised he wasn't okay with helping her betray her husband. His friend became her other guy, husband came home while they were at it, the guy jumped out of the window and the husband knew, so grabbed a bicycle, chased him and punched him once, going 20mph, so it knocked him out. A couple of relationships later, after getting £15,000 in debt to help a woman leave her abusive husband and getting in a relationship with her, my dad came back from a holiday with his parents and found her with another guy. |
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How can I talk to him about these issues? He expects my sons to contribute via chores but does nor expect his teen daughter to do anything
Q. I'm Engaged!!!!!!!!. I should be excited right? I'm more worried than anything. We have dated a little over a year and are planning to get married May 2017. We both have children from a previous marriage. He has two daughters (21 and !7), I have ...
A. 29 July 2016: Your children will have a fairly crappy childhood while you stay with this man. I really feel for them - please kick him out before he moves his daughter in!... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 13 July 2016: You approached her the right way, OP - don't worry. There's absolutely nothing wrong or inferior about the way you went in there :)... (read in full...)
How can I talk to him about these issues? He expects my sons to contribute via chores but does nor expect his teen daughter to do anything
Q. I'm Engaged!!!!!!!!. I should be excited right? I'm more worried than anything. We have dated a little over a year and are planning to get married May 2017. We both have children from a previous marriage. He has two daughters (21 and !7), I have ...
A. 3 July 2016: Sorry, OP, but I'm quite disappointed that a mother moved a stranger into her house with her children before she really knew him and before they really knew him.
You are clearly a good mother and don't need this man, as well as being wise enough t... (read in full...)
Does the evidence suggest that he's gay or transgender?
Q. I wrote the post "We had our first kiss and it wasnt magic as expected! Now what?" few days ago. After the advice i got from my lovely aunties here i was on my way to end things with him but before that i asked my trusted friend what she thinks ...
A. 2 July 2016: Transgender men *are* men, WiseOwlE. They don't always have evidence in their crotch of it.... (read in full...)
Does the evidence suggest that he's gay or transgender?
Q. I wrote the post "We had our first kiss and it wasnt magic as expected! Now what?" few days ago. After the advice i got from my lovely aunties here i was on my way to end things with him but before that i asked my trusted friend what she thinks ...
A. 2 July 2016: Not gay or transgender. I also would not call him a "p***y" because I find that degrading and unfair - most areas are dangerous, some more than others and there could very well be gang activity near you still.
He's not for you, that's obvious,... (read in full...)
We caught feelings for each other, any advice?
Q. My fwb and I have both managed to catch feelings for each other. Our talks are no longer all about our next meeting, we text from good morning to good night throughout our day. Our conversations have been getting deeper. A few days ago we were ...
A. 2 July 2016: What you need to do is treat it like you're friends. Right now, because you've been FWB, you're acting like you're in love or already in a relationship. Don't scare him off. That said, if he does get spooked, you still shouldn't do FWB any more; ... (read in full...)
How can I talk to him about these issues? He expects my sons to contribute via chores but does nor expect his teen daughter to do anything
Q. I'm Engaged!!!!!!!!. I should be excited right? I'm more worried than anything. We have dated a little over a year and are planning to get married May 2017. We both have children from a previous marriage. He has two daughters (21 and !7), I have ...
A. 2 July 2016: I'll give you this situation from the sibling PoV: my brother is only 3 years younger than me and I was the one constantly made to learn life skills and do chores. I'm glad I learnt how to do laundry/cook, but I resent that my brother has never been ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a 23 year old guy not to want to talk or think about the future?
Q. Is it normal for a 23 year old guy not to want to talk or think about the future? I've dated my boyfriend for 5 years and today I asked him where he saw himself in 5 years. He described all his ambitions and goals but only added afterwards that he ...
A. 2 July 2016: You should *always* take a once-in-a-lifetime experience when you have no responsibilities tying you down. *Never* pass up an opportunity to further your individual goals, unless it makes sense - this doesn't. It's normal for him to not be sure a... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my ex boyfriend ? He still has his girlfriend and I broke up with my boyfriend, but he doesn't know that
Q. Hey aunts! I need advice So I have an ex boyfriend who broke my heart. The relationship was amazing but due to him losing his job, he had to move right away. He said he didn't want to lose me and how he would always want to be with me but we...
A. 2 July 2016: The common sense answer would be to not visit him and, like Honeypie said, just tell him you're too busy with family. On this one, I'd go with common sense and not how you're understandably wanting to go.
If he wouldn't tell his girlfrie... (read in full...)
Is this fair? I've developed depression due to my concerns. Should she be contributing more? She leaves me to pay everything in order for us to live
Q. I'm feeling incredibly depressed lately. Be been married for 1year, we've been together for over 6years. I really do love her but I feel like she is bringing nothing to our relationship. She got a great degree from a state university, she cou...
A. 2 July 2016: Why did you marry her? Had you lived together before marriage and *seen* that this is what it's like?
Personally, in this situation, I'd stop washing dishes and only wash the ones I need for myself, at that moment; she can either wash a plate/bo... (read in full...)
We caught feelings for each other, any advice?
Q. My fwb and I have both managed to catch feelings for each other. Our talks are no longer all about our next meeting, we text from good morning to good night throughout our day. Our conversations have been getting deeper. A few days ago we were ...
A. 2 July 2016: You're not stuck; you're insecure - like most people. He's finally told you how he feels, so give dating a go :)... (read in full...)
Can you be over friendly with a work colleague?
Q. Can you be over friendly with a work colleague? After kissing her on her neck/shoulder, she came back with kisses on the cheek. When asked what she was doing, she blow a kiss back. Calls me stupid names like baby boy, lover, - makes stupid ...
A. 1 July 2016: Wait, do you do this at work? Whether you do or not, yes; you can be over-friendly with a colleague and you're being unprofessional. I'd back off or this could be a sexual harassment suit waiting to happen.... (read in full...)
We caught feelings for each other, any advice?
Q. My fwb and I have both managed to catch feelings for each other. Our talks are no longer all about our next meeting, we text from good morning to good night throughout our day. Our conversations have been getting deeper. A few days ago we were ...
A. 1 July 2016: Well, this marks the end of the FWB because it would be silly to continue it after feelings have come about. However, if you like him, why not go on a date and hold off on the sexual stuff for 3 months of dating? You already know you're sexually ... (read in full...)
Is this family weird?
Q. I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and he lives with his parents and brother. His brother is 17. His Dad is away on business a lot and so his Mum spends time on her own. My boyfriend told me yesterday that his brother slept in the same bed as his Mum ...
A. 1 July 2016: I don't think it's major, but my future family won't be like that (because I'd find it uncomfortable/inappropriate) and I wouldn't act that way in front of my in-laws, even if they did.... (read in full...)
I'd like to get more serious, should I tell him how I feel? Or just roll with it?
Q. Last August I got with a guy for he first time, I went back to school and he went to college I didn't think much of it until I bumped into him a few weeks later at a party and he approached me and we chatted for a while, both of us were sober. Two ...
A. 1 July 2016: You need to tell the ex to back off, then ask this guy to be honest about his feelings because you like him. Right now, because of your developing feelings, hooking up isn't an option any more, so you need to find out if he wants to give it a go or ... (read in full...)
We both feel uncomfortable around the other's family. Is this normal?
Q. I am confused with my relationship. Long story short. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years but we are still trying to be comfortable with each others' families. Although when he talks with his family, I feel left out and he feels ...
A. 1 July 2016: My boyfriend gets on with mine, but he still feels awkward about being left alone with them. I've only met his once (they live quite far away) and I could tell it would be hard for me to fit in at all because they are "country people" and I don't ... (read in full...)
Why is she avoiding sex and won't discuss it?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend around about 18 months now. At the start of the relationship we had sex often, however around the 6 month mark that slowed down and would only do it once a month and then at the nine month mark it stopped completely, ...
A. 30 June 2016: By the way, her not wanting sex is perfectly okay, but it's not conducive for your relationship.... (read in full...)
Why is she avoiding sex and won't discuss it?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend around about 18 months now. At the start of the relationship we had sex often, however around the 6 month mark that slowed down and would only do it once a month and then at the nine month mark it stopped completely, ...
A. 30 June 2016: In my opinion, it should always be two types of contraception - the pill/implant and condoms.
Do *not* move in with her - cut that plan out completely.
She probably has a low libido and that's why she's putting it off. You can go on the pill w... (read in full...)
Another guy has spoilt our friendship
Q. I'm friends with a female at work and I'm concerned that she isn't into me anymore like she used to be. We used to talk, have a laugh and things seem to have changed. A man who I'm not friends with anymore and who I'm not keen on is now friends ...
A. 30 June 2016: You got good advice on your last post a day or so ago: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/engaged-to-be-married-man-after-my-friend.html
Honestly, OP, you either ask her out or move on.... (read in full...)
Can't help feel offended by boyfriends comment. Advice please !
Q. Well my boyfriend was showing me this video the other day , the music video from fifth harmony called work. He said I look a bit like Camila cebelo , and I said thanks (she's really pretty if you guys have seen her!) anywaysyyyy he said to me that ...
A. 30 June 2016: You are depressing yourself and I think you should get counselling; you shouldn't be scared of losing your looks when you're older when you're only 22 - you shouldn't even be thinking about it and, if you do, you should realise that looks are so ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue things further with him?
Q. I have been interested in guy who works the next building from mine.He's always friendly and was giving off subtle signs of interest. I finally gave him my number and told him to call/text sometime.He said sure.Then I ran into him the next day and ...
A. 30 June 2016: You don't like him because you like your fantasy idea of him. Sorry, OP, but it's *highly* unlikely he lost your number *and* broke his phone; he's just not interested. Time to let go and move on to someone who is into you :)... (read in full...)
We broke up 2 weeks ago and I've heard nothing from him! Did he ever care? I'm confused and hurt!
Q. Trying to get over the guy I was with dumping me out of the blue after 6 years, it has been 2 weeks and everytime I hear nothing from him I am slowly giving up and hardening my heart to any reconciliation or speaking to him ever again. I feel li...
A. 30 June 2016: He's not being cruel, OP; he's moving on and you should too. You posted this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-shocked-my-boyfriend-broke-up-with-me.html You got some good advice there and you should really re-read it. This guy cutting ... (read in full...)
We had our first kiss and it wasn't magic as expected! Now what?
Q. We had our first kiss and it wasnt magic as expected. I am dating a guy who has been hitting on me for three years now. I am 20 he is 23 i thought i had feelings for him but yesterday when we had our first kiss i didnt enjoy. It was strange, tasted ...
A. 30 June 2016: Was it a peck or a make out? Reason being, people kiss differently and you have to communicate to explain what you do and don't like - otherwise he'll always kiss you like that because you lied and said you enjoyed it. Then again, you've hardly fa... (read in full...)
How do I ask him to give things a proper go?
Q. Hello . This is a little complicated , i went on a date with a guy about 8 month ago we agreed to be a couple but due to work and family and anything else we didnt get to see each other so decided to be friends , fast forward 8 month im in such a ...
A. 30 June 2016: Ask him out. It really is that simple. Without doing that, how will he fall for you?... (read in full...)
Engaged to be married man after my friend at work. Is this now a competition?
Q. There's a guy at work who is jealous I'm friends with this female. The problem is he's very full of himself and tries to ruin moments I have with her, when I talk to her. To my horror, I found out he is friends with her on facebook today, I don't kn...
A. 30 June 2016: OP, she's not yours to own. She is her own person and can add whoever she wants on Facebook. For you to be horrified by it is immature; Facebook is nothing in the grand scheme of things. What *you* do is ask her out or give up. Why? You're alre... (read in full...)
Boyfriend admitted his feelings changed... How do I move on?
Q. I was with my (now ex) boyfriend for six months. The first four months were amazing, we were both very committed to one another and had great chemistry. During the past two months however he became very distant. Communication on his part went from ...
A. 30 June 2016: "I usually move on quite well but he's an exception" - he's not necessarily an exception, OP; you've only had a few days to adjust! Give yourself more time and accept that you'll dream about the good stuff and be hurt when it's not real; it will ... (read in full...)
I have fallen madly, hotly in love with my sister in law
Q. I have completely fell for my sister-in-law , she even told her cousin I have the major hots for her and word for word her cousin came and told me , my brother has not done anything with her sense October last year and she is so grandly hot and it ...
A. 30 June 2016: First of all, she's off-limits and, like Cindy, I truly hope this is fake, so I'll give you two answers: 1) if this is fake - get yourself into a *very* amateur erotic writing class to journal your fantasies and keep it off of this site 2) ... (read in full...)
My gf won't be sexually intimate
Q. Hi. I've been with my gf for two and a half years. I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life but she refuses to be physically intimate. We only kiss. I have a high sex drive and had a very active sex life in the past. I'm ...
A. 29 June 2016: I really don't like people saying "grown up relationship" as a term for "relationship that includes sex" because lots of perfectly mature people of all ages in happy relationships don't want or need sex - that doesn't mean they don't have a "grown ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend selfish ? He is happy to receive, but will not reciprocate following times when I pleasure him
Q. my boyfriend never goes down on me. one day i asked why don’t you do it, he said he is not comfortable..so he don’t to do it. BUT i love doing it.. i more than comfortable doing it . one time he asked me.. i thought he will reciprocate so i did it.....
A. 29 June 2016: Just because you've done something before doesn't mean you have to do it again. Some people try anal with one partner, but don't want to try it in their next relationship, for example.
If you can't accept that he just doesn't want to do it, whic... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 29 June 2016: You're still overthinking it. If she's not in, wait until she is. Don't go in more regularly than you normally would because it's kind of obsessive.
If you go in once or twice a week, just keep doing that, don't go in three or four times. Don't st... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 29 June 2016: Not all men and women are the same, though. Many couples are shy or just don't like being "presupposed". A lot of us like more consideration or contribution from both people for the first date and so on.
This isn't just what I'm saying, this is ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend selfish ? He is happy to receive, but will not reciprocate following times when I pleasure him
Q. my boyfriend never goes down on me. one day i asked why don’t you do it, he said he is not comfortable..so he don’t to do it. BUT i love doing it.. i more than comfortable doing it . one time he asked me.. i thought he will reciprocate so i did it.....
A. 29 June 2016: Stop pressuring him to do something he doesn't want to do - the "real" reason doesn't matter; he's not comfortable with it and you're bugging him about it. You want it, he doesn't - if you can't drop it, leave him. If you were with a guy pressuring ... (read in full...)
How long can I "play" hubby for her?
Q. Me [25 M] in love with [26 F] living with her bf for the past 9 years with two kids It's really a tough situation because I have fallen in love with her and she with me. But as is always the case when someone has been with another guy for 9 years ...
A. 28 June 2016: "I'm not pressuring her because 9 years and two kids is quite a lot. This is a massive decision but how long can I let maybe potential opportunities pass me by. How do I proceed?"
You pressure her. Not being funny, but you *are* being unfaithf... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 28 June 2016: You're just overanalysing and takin the fun out of it. Stop twisting yourself into different "what do I do" questions - you said it yourself; "what ifs" drive you round the bend, but so does this. You're obsessing. Forget about it until the time has ... (read in full...)
I'm not crazy .... am I?
Q. Hey everyone, I will keep this short and sweet (I am looking for a volume of answers to gauge what is deemed as acceptable by all) About six weeks ago I started chatting to a girl on Tinder, lovely bloody thing she is... We live 350kms apart, sh...
A. 28 June 2016: Not so "short and sweet" ;)
OP, I will support LDRs when they make sense because I'm in one.... You've met her once and there's been no official show of exclusivity. She's playing on that, but you want something more than she does.
I'd giv... (read in full...)
I feel that no one will give me a break. How can I gain more acceptance in a work situation?
Q. I feel like I'm being discriminated against at work but it's the restaurant owner! I messed up in the past and felt VERY lucky to have gotten the job I did. Right after my arrest, I applied for every job I could and landed a job as a barrista...
A. 28 June 2016: You're not wrong, but this happens when you make a bad decision and get arrested - it follows you for quite some time and this is still very recent. It's hard for people to trust you, right now. Keep looking for another job and *always* be upfr... (read in full...)
How do I get over the desire I feel for my cousin?
Q. I've been in relationships before. Once married and now divorced. But I've never felt what i feel for my cousin. He is my uncle's son. We've seen each other twice during our childhood. But now, he is this accomplished man who's stirring this wa...
A. 28 June 2016: You don't "love him so much"; you're infatuated. I'm glad he's already let you know nothing can happen. You're 36 - 40, you *know* this is silly. You've had dodgy relationships and are latching on to someone who seems like your ideal guy - so u... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 28 June 2016: I'd find it obnoxious if you demanded a date and time, so I'd turn you down. Not everyone likes the type of alpha Serpico describes - many do, but a lot don't.... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if a man, married or in a relationship, has a happy ending occur after a massage?
Q. Hi ladies (and gents), I was searching for some opinion here! Long story cut short, what do you think of a married man or your spouse getting a happy ending after a massage? Would that be considered as cheating? Would you be upset if he told you...
A. 28 June 2016: Like IvyBlue and CindyCares said: accident, no - deliberate, yes.... (read in full...)
Why do we keep on contacting each other after our breakup?
Q. My ex broke up with me over 2 months ago now, during the time from then to now - we have been in contact a lot and just basically can't seem to stay away from each other, no matter how much we say we will. We have repeated again and again to eac...
A. 28 June 2016: Honeypie is on point. You should always cut contact for 3+ months after a break up, unless kids or divorce are involved (or something similar).
You're both getting comfort from this, but he's probably gradually moving on and you're clearly ... (read in full...)
How do I suppress my attraction toward him?
Q. I am going through somewhat a confusing moment in life. I find myself attracted to my best friend who may be asexual. The problem is I don't think it is mutual. He's never dated anyone ever nor expressed interest in anyone. He does know I am gay, ...
A. 28 June 2016: Asexual means lack of sexual attraction (though the reasons for that can be different, like trauma or just genuine lack of sexual attraction) - some of us still want romantic and/or sexual relationships, but others don't.
This may not really b... (read in full...)
What does the appearance of her toothbrush at my place mean?
Q. I've got a bit of a humorous question, however, it's also a serious one. Ladies, what does it really mean when you leave some of your belongings at a guys place? The girl I've been sleeping with for a while now just left (Cue the music: "Don don ...
A. 28 June 2016: It's gross to carry a toothbrush around a lot - if you see each other regularly, she either left it there for that reason or forgot about it, like everything else. That said, maybe she left it there to see how you'd react.
Are you both happy wi... (read in full...)
Do I end the 25 year friendship ?
Q. I dont understand why my friend is trying to make me feel guilty. Sorry but this is a long story , I have a friend who lives in a different town to me its only a 10 minute bus ride ill call her A i also have a friend who lives in the same town as ...
A. 28 June 2016: I'm with Honeypie - distance yourself. I don't think you need to cut it off, at least not directly, but stop inviting her and don't bother replying when she starts moaning at you about it; say "I'm sorry, Jill, but I won't keep listening to this" ... (read in full...)
My gf won't be sexually intimate
Q. Hi. I've been with my gf for two and a half years. I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life but she refuses to be physically intimate. We only kiss. I have a high sex drive and had a very active sex life in the past. I'm ...
A. 27 June 2016: I don't think it's irrational or selfish to have a libido and desire her closeness - heck, my boyfriend and I are having a similar issue because I didn't realise I had a libido until I fell in love with him, but he's got some mental, emotional and ... (read in full...)
The guy I like has a best friend who likes me. What do I do?
Q. So basically I like a guy on my college course however I am not good at letting him know this for instance I accidentally kneed him in the face when he was trying to pick me up. So I would love to try to get with him. However then there is his best...
A. 27 June 2016: There are no men here, just boys/guys. What do you *want* from the guy you like? What do you mean you want to "get with him"?
Does he like you? Picking up friends of different genders happens quite a bit in UK colleges, so I wouldn't assume t... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend selfish ? He is happy to receive, but will not reciprocate following times when I pleasure him
Q. my boyfriend never goes down on me. one day i asked why don’t you do it, he said he is not comfortable..so he don’t to do it. BUT i love doing it.. i more than comfortable doing it . one time he asked me.. i thought he will reciprocate so i did it.....
A. 27 June 2016: Not everyone is comfortable giving oral. Being equal in a relationship doesn't mean down to every little detail. If he does other things to please you, that *is* equal. It's not fair to stop *just* because he doesn't feel comfortable giving oral. ... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 20 June 2016: I don't really know; it's hard when you don't know anything about them and have no common ground to bring up. I guess you say something about wanting to go for coffee? Personally, I don't think you should, as it could be seen as creepy for asking ... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 17 June 2016: Dating is about getting to know the person, but you normally know something about their personality already that makes you want to know more - right now, all you have is her looks and age, as well as that she's a polite waitress. I'm not saying ... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 16 June 2016: Does her age have anything to do with it for you? I'm only asking because you don't really know anything about her to want to date her personality.... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 16 June 2016: How old are you? I know this may not seem important, but it could be because it may affect my advice. Why do you like her? Have you had a conversation with her? Why would you like to ask her out?... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 15 June 2016: How much younger?... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 14 June 2016: How old is she?
If she's about your age, go for it. Though, "Have a nice day. See you later" is what they get paid to say to everyone, so don't think anything of that.... (read in full...)
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