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Whats going on in here head, why did she just drop all contact ?

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Question - (31 July 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2006)
A male , *ray-c writes:

Ok, was going out with this girl for three months and all was going great I had totally fallen for her and I actually felt that she was the one, but then two weeks ago out of the blue she didn't respond to my messages (which she had always done like a religon) this went on for a week and then she rang me apologising saying that she was busy at work and that she was "so so sorry" we agreed to meet up the next day but she then cancelled, again unlike her. So another week has gone by and no word, I've now accepted the fact that it is more than likely over but shouldn't she tell me whats up!! So my question is whats going on in her head? should I expect a responce from her or are my being too pushy??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2006):

leave her alone stop all contact with her then you will see the calls come in when she thinks your really gone

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A female reader, anon2907 Australia +, writes (31 July 2006):

anon2907 agony auntHey,

It is possible that there's stuff going on with her that she can't tell you about right now.

Why not send her a message saying you've missed seeing her and you'd like to meet up. Say you understand she's been busy, so if there's anything you can help with.... etc etc.

Then the ball is in her court. She could be being mean and not being honest, or it could be something genuine. It's difficult to know - no wait - it's impossible to know! But try and be positive.

Good Luck,


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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2006):

Your not being pushy it just sounds like this girl is shallow and can't face up to telling you it's over. I don't think she wants anything to do with you, if there were something major going on in her life she could always tell you to back off for a week or so. Keep an open mind but my instincts say move on and try and find someone else.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2006):

shania agony auntIt sounds to me that she doesn't want to know.In this day and age it doesn't take a whole day or a life time to either email...text or write a letter to the person who's waiting for contact.Yes,she might be busy but come on....if she was really keen on you then she would of called you by now.Really she has took the cowards way out and ignored you instead,you are better off without her.

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