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writes:Ok lets say i a guy showed he liked you, used to stare at you loads and just really showed it and you coul sense there was something there. Then someone got jealous and so turned people against me which made people think i wasnt a nice person..thrughout all this the lad stopped talking to me as much but we stayed friends but he still really showed that he liked me mainly because he use to stare at me.Now things got compliacted and he was asked my a friend of ours around the time i was getting bullied if he did like me and he said he didn;t but something just seemed weird and he said he doesn;t want a gf. Then he continues to show it but then about 5 months down the line he likes someone else in the class and he still shows he likes me abit but she turns him down...and yes every now people still think he likes me but wont admit it. The thing is he hardly talks to me much we just seems to have a communication problem. hes fine with everyone else just rambles on about loads of stuff n messes around but i just seem to be different i don't know why but is there a possibility that because he still shows it that he does still like me?We do have a serious communication problem but a part of it makes me think its becasue others will say something to him and because of whats happened hes scared to do anything because he does like me but it kinda stuck...i dunno do you think after we leave college in like a month thwre could be a chnace we'll get toegther or that he does actually still like me?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (8 May 2009):
 There is a chance that he likes you, but he is feeling peer pressure and he doesn't want to say. If I was you I would focus on someone else because I wouldn't want a boyfriend who won't stick up for me! If he's just worried what other people will say/think then he's obviously not going to be a good boyfriend! On the other hand, if he did like you then I'm sure he would say something, so maybe he's not into you! Maybe you'zre just assuming that he likes you because he stares at you. People have plenty of reasons to stare at others, he could be staring at you because he wants to freak you out. I don't stare at the people I fancy, not many people do, so don't assume that just because he stares that he actually likes you, it may not be the case at all. X
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reader, Ms.Helper +, writes (8 May 2009):
 I spent 4 years wasting my time on a lad (my age, from my school) I told him i was in love with him numerous times, he said he loved me, not that he was in love with me. I loved him as a friend & I was pretty obssessed with the idea of being in love with him.
It's not fair for him to keep giving you these signs, then doing nothing about it. Like torture?
Maybe he's waiting for you to make the first move...or tell him you are interested in him.
Or maybe he likes the attention your giving him, & he has no intention of telling you he likes you.
He seems to be a bit of a prick, don't wait around too long, there's plenty more fish in the sea, that won't play games with you!
Good luck x
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