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Should I tell my wife about the dream where I slept with another woman?

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Question - (16 October 2014) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2014)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I had a very explicit and elaborate dream in which I had sex with a woman who was not my wife. I would never dare tell my wife such things except that this particular dream wasn't sexual in nature. The sex part was just a small (but important) part of the plot. She is a film maker and I felt that the plot could make a great script. I sort of screwed up the approach by saying: "I had a dream that would make for a good script." I did not tell her the sex part yet but to make any sense it has to be revealed. I am tempted to just omit that part but then the plot will be weak as one of the characters is a prostitute and I dreamed the part of the protagonist. Is this the sort of thing I should not reveal despite the potential it has as a vehicle for her to develop?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2014):

Only you know if telling your wife about that aspect of the dream would upset her.

My take is keep it to yourself.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (16 October 2014):

olderthandirt agony auntIs there an upside to this? If not remain quiet.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (16 October 2014):

I don't know, depends on your relationship and her sense of security. Many people have dreams like that, personally my husband and I can share them without issue but I also know women who would flip out over it.

You know her better than we do,how do you think she'd react?

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A male reader, SensitiveBloke United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2014):

SensitiveBloke agony auntI wouldn't mention it.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (16 October 2014):

Honeypie agony auntSounds like a bad idea waiting to happen.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2014):

Just say that your part in the dream was someone else. And you walked in on them by accident or something

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