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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok i really want 2 go round this guys house, hes stopped talking 2 me for no reason, ive texted him and wont answer my texts, and i dont know what ive done, ive spoken 2 my guy mates and they say i should go round and just knock on the door, but im scared he will close the door on my face,Shell i do it or do Any advice on it?
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reader, Elainey  +, writes (15 November 2009):
He is clearly avoiding you. It is not easy for a guy to reject a girl so I guess this sounds like an unspoken rejection to you. So girl do not go and look for him and save some dignity for yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 November 2009):
No, no no. You don't want to seem like a stalker (Think Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction!). If a man doens't contact you, it's because he's not interested (sorry about that) Your male friends are probably sounding tough, telling you what you want to hear or setting you up. Do not do it. Accept he's not interested, and find someone who is.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 wooo ooooooI am feeling a lot of bad vibes on this one.Under no circumstances you go and knock on his door, unless you want to get a rep as a stalker and crazy lady.Dont take any notice of your male friends, they are probably just grunting in the right places to shut you up.Whatever your relationship with him was, its over.
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reader, Tanya..... +, writes (15 November 2009):
sounds like this guy may be trying to give you a hint that he is not interested. Stop texting him for a couple of weeks and see if he sends u a message, if he does then reply something like "hey, whats been happening? havent heard from u in a while, we should catch up sometime" and if he does text u, dont reply straight away!!! wait a bit a few hours even and it will get him thinking "hmmm she usually texts me staight up" and it will get him thinking..haha If he dosent, forget him!! plenty more fish in the sea :)
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