A
male
age
30-35,
*ominic pusel
writes:i am 20 years old, and am in love with a single lady of 31, she is a working class lady and am not, since i am a high school leaver, the problem i have with her is that she hardly pick my calls and never calls back when she sees my missed calls. But she says she loves me, am even suprised because she becomes very caring at times. Since we started dating last month we have met only twice. Am so cofused if she realy loves me. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): People seem to bandy the word 'love' about far too easily and it sounds like your lady friend is no exception. You've gone on 2 dates in one month so chances are this isn't love.
A simple rule of thumb that you apply to anyone is pay more attention to what they DO, and less on what they say.
This woman is not your girlfriend and it is far too soon to be declaring love.
Forget her and move on.
A
female
reader, VSAddict  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Have you ever thought that maybe she doesn't call because she works? But if she's not putting any time into the relationship, then it isn't love and it isn't going to work. You two also don't see enough of each other and that doesn't seem like a problem to her. I don't think she's taking this as seriously as you are. I think it's time for you to move on.
...............................
|
