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My babys father abuses me by text and now seems like in nearly 3 years together I was always a secret!!!

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Question - (30 September 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

until recently i was in a relationship with my babys father and he dumped me by txt and then started to abuse me by txt calling me horrible names and a liar.we was together for 2 years 9 months and through out this time never did i meet his best friend or any of his friends which i thought very strange and still do,never did he even speak or txt them in my company,yet he'd tell me his friend txt him earlier.when we first got together i came across hundreds of photos in his bedroom of bare breasted women that he had taken.for the time we was together every month i suffered horrific verbal abuse for 4 days and because i loved him so much i forgot about it,when he txt me,he also denies downloading porn yet i have seen 60+ dvds,someone he knows has lied about me and he believes them yet he wont stand up and challenge them about it to learn the real truth

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):

face it you were the bit on the side move on get over him you deserve better you can do better if he even cared you would of met certain ppl in his life did he even ever take you out or do anything for you that you cant do your sekf get strong for you and your baby

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):

Toria agony auntSounds to me like you would be better off without him, I understand you probably love him and you have a child together but you don't deserve to be treated this way by anyone especially not someone that is 'mean't' to love you.

I would suggest getting out of this situation and trying to move on from him, you deserve so much better than this.

Good luck :o)

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A female reader, kdlady +, writes (30 September 2006):

This sounds scary and he sounds like an immature jerk...Why stay with a man who cannot communicate with you unless it's negative? Are you sure he's not bipolar? What's with the 4 days only...I don't get it! Time to pack your things and move on!

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