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writes:I am unsure about online dating. I found a profile I liked and sent an email. For about 2 wks now we have been chatting, and finally met face to face for coffee on my lunch break. he is a doctor with 2 mos. residency left and on call. I feel like I caught him off guard last night. He acted strange when I called him from my cell phone.It has been disconnected, but my friend reconnected it for her personal use for the moment(prepay). Usually my # is blocked bcause I call him from hm. He reluctently answered the phone at 11:15 p.m. last night. And sounded very surprised. and not much for words. he then asked if he could call me back, I told him yes but on my home ph. not on my cell because my friend is using my ph. and it wont be me on the other end. 15 min. later I get a text msg. from him-sorry my ph. died and I am charging the battery and can't call you back. Good night. Talk to you tomorrow babe. he was supose to be playing poker with his friends and in fact was hell bent on calling me when finished. My gut tells me he's not being honest with me about himself. Out of curiosity I went back and re-read his profile. He has gone back and edited his profile since I first read it, and either addeded/deleted or completely changed something. Ex. the profile initially stated he was a Leo, and he was 6ft.,and did not state his income level, and indicated that he wanted kids, and did'nt have any. Now it sais "tell you later". he's been consistent. And now he's not. Whats up?
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 To much early days to talk about commitment but my gut feelings is that he is either hiding something or not being exclusive.
Meet someone who can be more compatible with you and try to move on. This one is a no goer.
Good luck
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 C'on girl I think he dindn't trust your story about the mobile and he's taking revenge on you. On the other hand he's being dating other ladies maybe he doesnt want to show so much info on him just in case he's recognised or whatever, u can give him a go if u want though he seems childish to me and I do not think u should waste more time thinking a bout it, if he phones again then u decide and that's it darling but beware of him being a player as his excuses are poor
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): Okay...you met him once. You talk about consistancy. Were you consustant to phone him up out of the blue? You state he was surprised? Well, he likely was. He was playing poker with this friends. He wasn't expecting this call. He said he'd call you back later, instead he texts you and says his phone battery died. Is this the only phone he had access to. Hard to say, but not likely but this isn't an exclusive, dating relationship and he knows that...so he changed his mind. You check his profile and there are changes...many people change their profiles, update, delete, add...that's par for the course on dating sites. Sweety, i just have to say, if you have a niggling gut instinct, he's not the one for you-then you are not under any obligation to date him further. You have invested much into this except two weeks, a lunch date and a few phone calls. Call it a day. That is your choice as dating is a selection process and you don't owe each other, anything.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (19 January 2007):
 A doctor, yeah right. I think your "guts" are all over this guy. He's probably at home right now waiting for his welfare check.
Better luck next time.
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