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writes:I have a guy friend who ive been seeing for a while. he is in afghanistan now. before he left we didnt see one another to say goodbye. I was very hurt and upset. Well recently before he left for afg he was training in another state. he has emailed me, said it was good hearing from me, that he misses me. I was honestly about ready to give up on him and back away and fade into the background. I sent him a package and I decorated the inside of the box. I really put my heart into it. Well he emailed me after he got it. He showed the guys (his army buddies) and they said that I am a great person for taking that time on that box. He said that he agreed. He also told me, "I cant explain how much I appreciate you." That touched me soooo much. He has apologized for not seeing me before he left. he said that he was not good at goodbyes. lately my emotions have been off the charts. I emailed him back after his email and told him how much he touched me, I want to spend the rest of my life with him. What do you think? For a man who doesnt say "love you" is he telling me that he loves me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): It sounds as though he is, at least, very fond of you, but I'm cautious about venturing farther than that. What I can suggest with confidence is that you not express any stronger feelings for him than he has for you. Let him take the lead. That doesn't mean he has all the power. Quite the contrary. You can accept, or decline any offer made. If he has difficulty expressing intimate things then he may feel rushed or cornered by you doing so.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 He showed his brothers and he said he appreciated you.
In a mans world that says I love you MORE...
"Wild thing...you make my heart sing..."
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): Thank you for bringing my head out of my ass. I appreciate that what you just said... THANK YOU!!! It is hard for us being back here in the states when the soldiers are over there. We are stuck here with how things were and the soldiers are put into a whole new frame of mind.....once again appreciate your comment. I guess he loves me to be keeping in touch with me being gone.
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