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Is this amount of sex bad?

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Question - (30 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ooty24 writes:

Hi there.

Me and my bf really really enjoy sex, and when he's back from uni we do it every opportunity we get.

He satisfies me every time but I get worried that this amount of sex is bad.

I think about sex a lot during the day and i'm always quite horny. I'm 18 and he's 21.

Over the past three days, we've had sex six times.

I am a little bit tender down there now, but it's not unbearable.

Is this really bad? Or is it normal?

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A female reader, sooty24 United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2008):

sooty24 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

sooty24 agony auntThank you for all your answers :)

Have a nice day!


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A female reader, Gothic Wolf United States +, writes (1 December 2008):

Gothic Wolf agony auntYes it is normal, when my boyfriend is here we go through a pack of condoms. You're 18 and very hormonal... so have fun but always use protection.

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (30 November 2008):

Blue_Angel0316 agony auntBeing overactive can cause tenderness amongst other problems. It can lead to bruising of the pelvic area and inflamation or infections of the bladder and/or female genatalia.There is also a condition caused honeymoon cystitus which can be aggravating.

Your hormones are raging at this age. However if the thought about sex consumes most of your day it could become unhealthy. Obesseive complusive disorder is when you constantly obessess over anything and can't control the urge to not do it.

For the most part I would say that it's Normal to be this way but you have to control those urges so things don't get out of hand. It's best to sustain from having sex until you are sure that you really want to be with a person. Sex isn't something that needs to be rushed and is something to be shared with someone you truely love.

God bless,



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A male reader, jlove United States +, writes (30 November 2008):

jlove agony auntThis is not abnormal at all. i've done it 12 times in 3 days so u have nothing to worry about. but if the tenderness gets unbearable, STOP and give it a break until the tenderness goes away. my ex made the mistake of letting me go while she was super tender and she regretted it...

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