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Is he too old for me?

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Question - (14 January 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 20 and recently started dating 31 year old man. We get on well, but is 11 years too big an age gap for a relationship to work in the long run?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (17 January 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif you are happy and he is happy and it's working then go for it.

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A male reader, doublejack United States +, writes (17 January 2012):

OP, the age gap is likely more of an issue now than it will be in the future. I have a similar gap with my girlfriend, she is 25 and I'm 35, and there aren't any problems at all. So if the two of you get on well, have chemistry and are mutually attracted to one another, why not give it a try? It isn't like this guy is old enough to be your dad.

Best of luck!

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A female reader, uroboros United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2012):

i think it's fine, as long as you trust and respect each other.

if you started to see him recently just give this relationship some time and see how it goes.

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A female reader, swordandredrose United States +, writes (15 January 2012):

That's my IDEAL age gap! Go for it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012):

I don't wanna be envious but I wish I found a date and feel that emotion and say:"I'm in love with him!". Just know that love shouldn't be related to the ages, and listen to your heart, it's the only way to know if you love him or not. If you really do, don't care about any other thing, live your life, and be happy!!

Good luck!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012):

I totaly think its fine! at your agei see no issues go enjoy your life together

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