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Is he a user and abuser? Or a heartbreaker?

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Question - (8 June 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *omanceLie writes:

I've known this guy for 5 years now. 4 years as a friend and 1 as well an online realationship. Things started in 2009 march, i'd just gotten over someoen who never liked me and well this online guy was alaways there to help, always caring. we expressed emotions for each other and grew closer day by day.

Around September things got wierd. suppoasadly I had offended him alot. and he said the feelings had been lost. purposally appeared offline, avoided and went onto other sites I later found him in. I was called a stalker, wind forwards two months he comes back asking if we can do it again, i say yes. a few months of happiness, but i had mistrust for him.

This caused him in may to break it off again.

a week later he came back crying, and telling me how much he needed me and didnt want me to stop loving him.

I took him back. 4 weeks later the last i see from him is a facebook update.

What should I say when its all over, what do I know when nothings going right all this trouble in my mind , What do I when Im lost inside my soul.on Saturday

Since Then nothing. no contact, nothing at all even before the update the last i heared was last friday. its tuesday. and it's like he has disappeared.

I don't know what to do. please someone help..

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (8 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntOk, that does it for me, we part ways on the interpretation of nonsense posted on even more nonsense that is Facebook. What's posted here from Facebook is either work of an acid-tripping cat, walking on the keyboard OR merely further evidence supporting my position that Facebook is nothing but a trash can catch all for user-generated gibberish. Someone else must pick up the baton from here. This is mindlessness.

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (8 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntThen that would mean she already KNOWS the guy's a batsh*t crazy loser, wouldn't it? A' la :What do I when Im lost inside my soul.on Saturday

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A female reader, RomanceLie United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2010):

RomanceLie is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Well it was posted last on Saturday.

on facebook, it's really bizzar because only a last week he wrote this.

If you had to give XXXXX a gift, what would it be?

me being there for her and letting her no i wont ever go

June 1 at 4:19am via Social Interview · Comment · Like · See Wall-to-Wall · Interview Me

What is XXXXXX naturally good at?

caring and being so spicy oh and the naturally sexy thing but thats another story another time hahaa

June 1 at 4:12am via Social Interview · Comment · Like · See Wall-to-Wall · Interview Me

Where would go on a date with XXXX?

YES and i'd keep going on dates with her every night cause even though i know her i wanna get know every part of her even more and that will take YEARS! SO HELL YEA I will date her and only her :)

This was posted june 1st. so it's really bizarre and it's all mystery.

his status is the lyrics from a song.

Called for bitter or worse..

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (8 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntWhat you do is: treat him as though he has disappeared for the very last time! Hit the off switch for the last time and stop allowing yourself to be dragged into mindless games. On/off on/off is utterly, absurdly, mindlessly insane.

Just curious: romanticized lyrics aside, what does "lost inside my soul on Saturday" even mean?

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