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I feel so empty and hopeless after our breakup. How can I get through this?

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Question - (29 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, this is marcus, I'm gay and I'm having such a hard time trying to move on, my boyfriend decided to end our relationship 5 months ago, and I still love him and miss him so much, he was really rude on our last talk, it was really heartbreaking.

So last nite i went to a bar with my best friend, he was there, I ignored him and I had a great time, I got drunk :( i dont usually do it, it was so hard acting like i didnt care, i didnt even look at him, and i feel so bad because i wont lie, i still have feelings for him and this is causing me depression and sadness, its being so hard to go thru this, and I really need advice, I don't know what to do, I just feel like crying, I feel so empty and hopeless. I gave him my all and now I got nothing, nothing.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009):

Firstly, Youve got plenty. Just because a loved one has left you, it doesnt mean youve got nothing. Think of what you were doing before you met him and see if you can pick up from there. Enjoy life and dont hang on to this one man, if he has really shown signs that he doesnt want you and doesnt love you any more, then move on. Go meet new people and get to know someone who loves you just as you love them and work at your relationship all the time. You will do good. Good Luck Marcus, hope you find mr right one day.

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A male reader, david ~gay~ United States +, writes (30 November 2009):

i understand ur problem but im only 13 right so wat do i kno.. my bf did the same to me but what i did was tlk to him but i really did tlk to him i asked him how he felt about his choice leaving me he told me that this is what he really anymore i still love him today but i also want himn wanted and he didnt feel a connection i still love him but i want him to be happy so just ask him if hes happy with his choice...and if he truly is u have to let him go

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A female reader, OHme France +, writes (30 November 2009):

OHme agony aunthi marcus, break up could be so tough and I know what you are feeling because I felt it too, I just want to tell you to talk to your best friends about your pain and to try to take sometime to be by yourself; I know how much memories can hurt but you must be strong and avoid going to places where you could see him until you reach a state of mind when you will be able to forget yesterday and think about new opportunities;

be strong!!

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A female reader, Heartbroken29 United States +, writes (29 November 2009):

I know how you feel because I just broke up with my boyfriend after being together for 4 years. There's nothing you can do to forget him right away. But keep yourself busy just avoid places where he goes to. Otherwise you'll never get over him

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