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I don't have feelings for him anymore, should I break up with him?

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Question - (30 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2006)
A female , *isaMarie writes:

I am dating this guy we dated for a month then broke up and like a month later we started dating again. He went to germany and when he came back i didnt have feelings for him anymore... we started dating the day he left for germany. he got back like 5 days ago. he goes to a different school than me and we are never going to be able to see each other and i feelings for another guy at my school.. should i break up with him and go after the guy i truely like or should i keep dating him since it would kind of feel like i used him I have no clue what to do please help!!

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A female reader, stacyhelper +, writes (30 September 2006):

stacyhelper agony auntIf you don't have feelings for him any more it's not good to keep stringing him along, if you don't have feelings for him explain to him you havent and why if you can.

if you keep stringing him along then one day he will find out that you don't like him and the only reason you didnt tell him is because you didnt want to hurt his feelings, that will hurt him even more if you do that.

just be fair to the boy tell him don't leave him hanging to get his heart broken.

all my love for being brave enough to ask

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (30 September 2006):

Toria agony auntIf you stay with him out of guilt to looking like you used him is only really using him to make yourself feel better and ease the guilt which is a selfish way of doing things.

If you really don't want to be with him anymore then let him go so he can move on and possibly be happy with someone else.

Good luck :o)

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