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writes:Last week my girlfriend was told by her doctor that she needed to wait at least a week before having sex again. This was the first time since we started dating that we've gone more than a three days without it. The funny thing is, I think she had just as hard of a time going without as I did.Now this is the first girl I've dated that really seems to enjoy sex and wants it as much, if not more, than I do. So now it's got me thinking. How common is it for a women to enjoy sex as much as her partner?A coworker of mine said that several of her friends don't really enjoy sex at all with their husbands, boyfriends, or baby daddys. One of them told her she only does it to keep her fiance from complaining all the time. After being in a relationship with someone who really enjoys making love. I don't think I could ever be with someone who only does it to keep the peace so to speak. With that being said, how many ladies out there love having sex with their man, and how many out there just do it to keep them in the relationship?
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 before my current bf, i didnt enjoy sex as much as i do now. i cant get enough and i think its becasue of how we feel about each other. also because hes really good at it haha!
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reader, Kylie25 +, writes (21 October 2008):
Of course women enjoy sex...maybe not all of them but some girls are highly sexed. I get randomly horny just from thoughts and I frequently think about sex even if it is not appropriate (like at work). But usually I am more turned on by my own thoughts than guys. I fantasize about a lot of foreplay so I guess I am more into foreplay than sex. HEHE
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): I consider myself to be a connoisseur of sex.
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 I have a very high sex drive that sometimes overwhelms my husband. I very much enjoy sex and is a great way to relieve stress.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): Sometimes, people get lucky. They find a partner who has the same sexual drive as them and they get the emotional connection as well, as good sex lasts only so long before you go your seperate ways. Sounds too me you two are on the same level together!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): Well, let me answer you this way... I recently had to have surgery and was told by the doctor that I had to wait 6 weeks before having sex again. I lasted all of 4. Well, 3 weeks and 6 days, to be precise. And it was the longest month of my life. So, yeah, some of us women love sex just as much as men do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): I could have sex every day, my guy is happy with once a week...don't assume that we girls don't like it too! It depends on the person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): Sex is GREAT! for sure, but my husband does like it more often than i... but not when i am not working overtime than we arre on the same page.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (14 October 2008):
it depends on how good your partner is at pleasuring you. some men just don't make sex comfortable and it can sometimes hurt, so women are therefore put off as it either hurts or their partner just simply can't find her clit or does not know how to make her reach climax.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): Some days I do it for myself, some days for him, and some days we both want it badly. Its just that in all realtionships, esp when you get married and have kids, there is so much work and effort you have put in that relationship on a daily basis, that you get exhausted with the over burden of responsibilities and then sex just looks like another task on the to-do list. But I really believe that even if women do it to make their man happy, its shows how dedicated they are to make the relationship work.If a man makes the effort, a woman can get in a mood easily.Massage after a long day definitely works for a woman. but how many men really make the effort??
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