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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: So, I like this boy a lot. And He graduated this past school year, and going to college pretty soon, considering summer is almost over. Well, I'm only to begin being a junior, so pretty soon, I'll never have my chance. I'm really shy, but I've talked to him once. And he knows I like him, but it seems like he doesn't care. Like, he would look at me once, and then ignore the fact I'm there. I mean evenn one time, he was with his friends, looked at me, and laughed with them, I don't know what it was about but I left after that. Everytime we are on facebook at the same time, it's like once I get on, a couple minutes later, he's off. I know it sounds crazy that I think maybe he gets off because he notices I'm on but it feels that way. I want to talk to him, but I never get the chance because of this. I don't want to lose my chance with him, cause I like him so much, but I don't know how to do this. I haven't seen him all summer, I have absolutely no idea where he works cause I'm not going to creep on him and find out, and of course I don't have his number. My question for you, is How can I talkk to him? And, is he even worth it? Or am I just wasting my time, and should just move on.
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reader, Abella +, writes (30 July 2012):
 So in the interim still spend time with friends, guys and gals.
But also concentrate on your own fitness.
Get plenty of exercise.
eat Healthily
Keep interested in current affairs.
Build your network.
When the time is right (if you and he are meant to be) then you and this guy may establish a satisfying relationship together , some day in tne futre
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reader, Abella +, writes (30 July 2012):
Right now he is totally focused on College. Age can be a big barrier at your age. However the plus side is that I suspect his family live in your area (since he went to school in your area). Which means he will be back to visit your area from time to time.
He might feel a slight embarassed feeling that a younger girl has a crush on him. That obstacle can be overcome. He will be at College for a while. But he re-visit your area from time to time.
So there will be future opportunities to meet him.
In the mean time you are of an age where your metamorphis from young teen to blossoming team can occur.
While not limiting you to just this guy, you can start developing who you are, into a blossoming beauty in a few years.
If you know any of his younger siblings (if he has any) then talk to them occasionally. It is a way to gather intel.
And yes, keep an eye on his FB as it might give you clues on what he has been up to.
If you find he is coming back to visit family then once of twice just happen to be in the right place at the right time.
Once you are in the 18-21 age group I think it is possible that he will start to show a little more interest.Fingers Crossed, because Reunited-Love friends who then enters into a more committed relationships, where people reconnect with a person they once had a crush on are very very common.
Patience and have faith. There is still time.
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