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Help! How do I let him go...?

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Question - (30 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *issionimp writes:

My boyfriend, "Chris", broke up with me. I honest to God, truly loved Chris. I wanted to be with him forever, but he didn't see it the way I did. I'm heartbroken now, and I don't know what to do. I've told him before how much I liked him, but he always changes the subject.

I still like him, and I always will, but I know I have to let go. There is no easy way for me to do this. I need help.

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (23 December 2009):

Griffo agony auntTime and space heals the heart. In time you heart will heal

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A female reader, missionimp United States +, writes (1 December 2009):

missionimp is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks guys, but a quick note.

I didn't put any of my problems on him. We talked about him mostly, because I knew he was having a hard time in his life right now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009):

one thing that is very unattractive to guys are clingy needy girls. i think that you have been to pushy toward him and he is backing off now. take my word for it when you are in a relationship, do not depend on the guy to make you happy. learn to be happy yourself and it will only add to the happiness of the relationship. it is a heavy load to put on someone to make them the one responsible for your happiness and there isnt a guy alive that can fill that need, or void for you. some guys like the hero, rescueing the damsel in distress feeling but really most dont, and cant deal well with it at all, especially very young guys. good luck mal

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A female reader, scrdofyou United States +, writes (1 December 2009):

scrdofyou agony auntYou need to sit back and think about things...Be happy you had him at one point in time, and make yourself understand things just werent meant to be. Theres always someone out there for you, things fall apart so better things can fall together. You'll find someone one day who is everything you wanted and MORE, and then you'll think back to Chris--and you'll be grateful you two went your seperate ways :)

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