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He called me another name during sex,is he having an affair?

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Question - (27 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My husband called me by another name while we were having sex. Does this mean that he is having an affair?

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A male reader, Abacadaba United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2006):

Abacadaba agony aunti called my ex-gf another girls name one night, she then ended it. For me it was nothing but a slip of the tounge, and my gf didnt speak to me about it, so it went tits up, i suggest you dont make the same 'mistake' my ex did, talk to him, find out who this girl is, chances are it was a slip of the tounge, its easy to make. She is most likely a friend, co-worker or something along those lines. Dont jump to conclusions, even if something like this did happen. good luck with it :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2006):

it's not certain. It DOESN'T mean he was fantasizing, it DONES'T mean he WASN'T. it also doesn't determine whether he is having an affair or not the name could be of someone of no importance to your husband and it just slipped up. You know when you're having a conversation with someone or something and you may say someone else name and not theirs. we've all done it, it just happens to take more importance during sex i geuss talkto your husband about it! it ocould be nothing it could be something and there's only one way to know

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (27 October 2006):

Yos agony auntI agree with the other aunts. Not necessarily. It could have been a fantasy or wishful thinking on his part, rather than actual, or perhaps an ex from a long time ago. Or even just a bizzare random event. Ask him about it, but do so in a gentle way.

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (27 October 2006):

Toria agony auntIt doesn't mean he is or isn't it just confirms he made a mistake this could be for alot of reasons from cheating to maybe it's a name he used alot in that day and therefore slipped up and used the name during sex, although it was wrong for him to do it we all make mistakes.

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (27 October 2006):

stina agony auntHello Anon,

It doesn't necessarily mean that he's having an affair, although it does warrant an answer. You should really have a talk with him about what happened and why it happened.

Here are my couple of thoughts: perhaps it's an ex, or maybe it's someone he might have a desire for. Or maybe it is neither. I don't know for sure what he was thinking (obviously) and before you start assuming everything under the sun, you really should find out what's going on straight from him. If you don't, then it's probably going to drive you mad if it hasn't already.

Take care.

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