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Do I go with the crush?

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Question - (28 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2008)
A female Austria age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a crush on a guy, and recently found out he feels the same, however i am currently seeing someone. He knows i am seeing someone, and is leaving me to sort out what i want.

Thing is, i have been with my guy for over a year, and still can not imagine having his children, yet i can imagine having children with my crush, and our life-styles seem as though they would fit really well.

Is this just my imagination playing tricks on me or should i give up now with my guy?

Help, what do i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008):

I'm in the same situation as u now... Other readers might say u r writing in favor of the new guy so you'll want positive feedbacks for the new guy...

what i can suggest is to leave both for a period of time to sort out your thoughts... u need to know who u want more not in a moment of spur but who u tink u will last down the road with in a long run...

currently wat you r saying is u cant imagine having kids with ur current bf... tk tat thought off your mind and tink carefully... what tis year meant to u...y is he still with u up until now? love is a complicated thing... dun waste your 1 year but also dun waste this new opportunity who could be ur soul mate..

if u love someone, let him go... if he comes back to you then he'll be yours forever. if they don't, then its never meant to be...

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