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Boyfriend doesn't trust me because of facebook.

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Question - (29 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello, my bf and I are having problems mostly because I don't give into everything he wants. I'm tired of the accusations, and the distrust he has for me. I can't keep defending myself to him. I'm loyal, I love him, but I'm worn out literally. I've told him to treat me as an equal he does for awhile then boom! I seem to do something he doesn't like and he yells for hours.

I want to say he at times tells me I'm very beautiful he always tells me he loves me wants me etc. We have great chemistry in bed.

It was just a couple months ago and I decided to keep my Facebook although he decactivated it and had the password. I went in reactivated it cause I have family I keep in touch with on there and many girls that I went to school with. I don't talk to men and he accused me of having this profile to attract men. He doesn't see my point so I kept it without him knowing. he went on my emails and seen my Facebook was reactivated and flipped saying I'm deceitful and don't ever lie to him again.

Its just a combo of things with him. He's draining me out, and I feel I deserve to be treated with respect and not always defending myself because of his insecurities.

I'm considering ending it with him. Should I wait for a change that may never come or move on?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010):

I went through this. It was HELL. I had to end it, but he still stalks me and sometimes will judge me on things I've posted on Facebook (even though I've blocked him, God knows how he sees my profile).

No matter how much you love him, it won't make him change. It has to come from within. I say it's time for an ultimatum, or just to leave.

Now if only I could make him understand it's over between us...

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2010):

You've given him chances and he has thrown them back in your face.

No one can live like this.

You can't stay with him because he sometimes is nice to you... if you are with some one that should be the minimum standard ALL THE TIME.

Move on. There are so much better men out there.

Good Luck!! xx

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