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Are they setting me up for something?

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Question - (6 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *runette26 writes:

Hello.

please don't judge me until you read it till the end.it may sound silly and just lame teens thing,but its not ,please take the time to read it and help me.

I'm 16 years old and when i was 13 my family moved to another state .it was hard for me leaving all my friends and the people i know espcially that i was going through a phase of puberty i guess,so i started a new school and got to know a few people.and the year went on fast.next year i started wearing girly clothes and showing off my body and just want to feel hot.guys did really notice me .soon i was the hottest girl in school and slept with the whole football team .i didnt know what was happening to me i just sort of changed,even at home with my family .i just wanted to be noticed .soon enough my grades were going really down and at the begining of the end at that school year i started to get back to the old me! the nice ,calm girl i used to be,guys didnt like that ,they started gettting rough with me if i didn't do with them what they wanted me to do .part of me was disgusted and i would just yell at them to leave me alone! and part of me liked the attention i was getting from them.the year after i left that school and went to a new one! got to know people and got really great friends and they didnt know what went on with me the year before that i was the school's slut ..and i felt i wasn't getting any attention from the guys in the new school ,i dont know what went on with me but i just started having those changes again! i know its crazy or nuts but sometimes i really think i have multiple personality's.then soon enough i was the slut again! but not with everybody not at all! i was just flirty alot! and likeed to show off my body! but there was this guy was a friend of mine,we got to know each other and then he introduced me to his friend outside of school and his friend and i got to really know each other and i guess the friend at school lets call him chuck ,got jealous because his friend hanged out with me more than he did with him .chuck was really violent and insane.and then he told his friend stuff about me and his friend left me.i was devastated and chuck and i wereb't friends then but then things were getting better! we became friends again! and i got to know a few of his other friends too! and the same thing happened! one of his other friends fell for me and started hanging out with me and chuck got jealous again! he started hitting me and i just couldn't tell anyone! because if i did! he would tell everyone how big of a slut i was last year ,i didnt tell him he figured it out ,he knows some people that knew me.and he started blackmailing me ,he knew i come from a rich family and starting asking me for money! each month he takes up to 5 thousand dollars . i didnt care about the money and i didnt wanna fight him .everyone would take his side! espically that his friend did the same thing as the first one did,he left me for chuck..and he just made my life a living hell. but then i left after the year ended and i went to a new city and there i met some really grear people,that i didnt feel i wanted to get notice or anything like that!! . after a while chuck's friend started talking to me and was really sweet and apologized for everything that he and chuck did to me,which was stalking me to my house and cursing me infront of everyone,and later on chucks other friend did the same thing.and now they are both really nice and sweet to me and both confessed that they liked me and still did!! and since they know i am moving back to their city again, i guess chuck knows too and im just too scared to go back there will chuck ever let it go ! and are they setting me up to something!

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A female reader, Brunette26 United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2009):

Brunette26 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you for helping ,i really agree on what you think but my family would know too and thats a whole another story i dont want them to know the person i was.

thanks anyway=)

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A female reader, Brunette26 United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2009):

Brunette26 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for helping, I really agree on what you think but my family would know too and that's a whole another story I don't want them to know the person I was.

thanks anyway=)

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A female reader, Good Girl United States +, writes (6 November 2009):

Good Girl agony auntI would report Chuck to the police reguardless of the effect on your reputation. Life is long, highschool is short and you can leave that city and those boys far behind. Just try to not let your past mistakes become a pattern in your future. Learn the value of true friends. That is heat you are missing in your life.

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