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writes:I had a boy friend with whom i had steady relationship for 4yrs.After that when our college was over(after 4yrs)he stopped talking 2 me and started avoiding me..whatever i ask him he is just taking it too easy which i couldn't tolerate finally i asked him the reason in avoiding me..he asked me time to answer,i was shocked to hear this from him..I am not in a position to erase memories of him..i am crying almost everyday..please give me a solution to forget him..I still love him though he tortured me so much by not giving reason.hope you can help me out of my problem with a good answer that helps me.. Reply to this Question
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reader, hotinlove  +, writes (15 November 2010):
Closure is needed. If after four years he doesnt know how to explain something to, then i think you should have dumped him a long time ago. Unfortinatly it sounds like hes no longer interested and after all that time you deserve way better! If hasnt come up with an answer in the next couple of days, call him and tell him why your leaving him! You deserve someone who cares enough to at least talk things through wheather they are good or bad.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 He needs to tell you why he is avoiding you something must have happened after 4 years for him just to start ignoring you, he is being a coward by avoiding you and not telling you.
Tell him that you need closure to be able to move on from him and ask him to be a man and do the right thing and tell you the truth as to why he needs space. If he wont tell you then darling he is not worth it.
You need to get out with your friends and keep yourself busy, accept that you are no longer in a relationship that you are young free and single and enjoy the time that you have, pick up some hobbies and hang out with friends. Only time will make you feel better here, so give yourself time and if you need to cry then dont be ashamed just cry it helps to get these emotions out.
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