He won't let me see his facebook page because I snooped when we were broken up!
Q. I snooped in my boyfriends facebook account months ago when we were broken up.we're back together now but he wont add me back on his friend list.he said i dont deserve it because of when i snooped.he said he will put that he is in a relationship as ...
A. 23 October 2011: So after 5 years,this guy simply goes to the internet for a replacement, after you break up? Why dont you go one better and keep away?... (read in full...)
How can I let my best friend go just because he doesn't love me as a girlfriend?
Q. I feel so frustrated I just need to rant. I have known a guy for five years and we have always been friends. We get on really well and stay in weekly (sometimes daily) contact. We socialise every few weeks because we live some distance apart a...
A. 17 October 2011: You need to accept what it is and move on with your life. You are wasting time but he isnt.... (read in full...)
I'm worried by these texts I've seen from another guy on my girlfriend's phone....what should I do now?
Q. my girlfriend sends and recieves strange txts from a guy at work; sent:he migth get suspisious secret meeting in the street an all x, (thro wet sponge at manager for charity) (pj day at work for charity) sent:you could get ya legs waxed in ya pj...
A. 17 October 2011: The words may mean nothing. Keeping her phone close,deleting and constantly on silent does suggest but does`nt confirm anything. Still,you need to keep your eyes on things without her knowing. How would she react if you was secretly texting a woman? ... (read in full...)
Not sure of my sexuality, can you help me??
Q. Im 17 years old and i don't know if im lesbian or not. I really really like guys but i think i might also be attracted to girls. i don't know if this would be the best thing or not for me Please Help!!!...
A. 16 October 2011: You could be bi or bi curious.... (read in full...)
How to seek revenge on a player?
Q. I was dating a player, and he keeps coming back for sex coz we have chemistry..I have been ignoring him..what is the best revenge? Is it better to confront him, and end it.. or be friendly and sweet like he doesnt mean anything to me, and gently p...
A. 12 October 2011: The best thing is to forget revenge and totally forget him too.... (read in full...)
Will a guy go back to his old ways?
Q. My boyfriend and I had broke up for a while. He lied and hid a lot from me in the past. After he realized what he had lost he came back to me promised no more of that and because I love him I decided to get back with him. A part of me believes him ...
A. 12 October 2011: They say people can change but they seldom do.... (read in full...)
Whats his problem???calling me a slut!?
Q. Whats his problem???calling me a slut!? I was involved with this guy who is 7 years my seniori am 24 and hes 31.we work in the same place-theater.. and we were really good friends for the last 5 years.he would always sit beside me be it any interact...
A. 12 October 2011: Its solely about his ego.... (read in full...)
It was nothing serious and he blew it out of proportion
Q. My partner caught me flirting on line. He had warned me several times to stop. I did for a while. He called round unexpectedly while i was in some erotic conversation. He has been a good father figure to my two teenage sons. After getting abusive he ...
A. 12 October 2011: I am female and would say no matter what gender you are 1 cheats the other gets hurt. If he had visited hookers,had an affair or anything else thats not agreed,then it would have been him who broke the relationship,not you, for not understanding ... (read in full...)
I didn't trust my b/f and now he's distant to me
Q. I messed up and invaded my boyfriend's privacy by going into his email and reading chat logs between him and another girl he used to like right before we met but whom he is still friends with even after we started dating. My behaviour was fueled by ...
A. 2 September 2011: If you walked in on them would you then apologize for being there at the wrong time? It sounds like you would. You are better than is.... (read in full...)
She feels free to check out other guys, but I'm in trouble if a girl check me out?
Q. Right so here's the thing I'm am old fashioned and I am well aware of this but I like being this way. It keeps me respectfull towards views on my relationship with my girlfreind which I love madly . The way I look at things is defanantly different ...
A. 23 August 2011: She could change yes,she may decide not to cheat but to dump you first when something more thrilling comes her way. You are setting yourself up,you know what she`s about,thats why you are here. She needs her ego boost and that is not happening ... (read in full...)
He's left me after 3 years... to go back with the ex!!!
Q. The love of my life has left me after 3 years and gone back to his ex and I'm completely devastated. He says its for the kids sakes and he's broken his own heart by leaving me, that I was also the love of his life, his soulmate and that he will nev...
A. 23 August 2011: He didnt break his own heart,he is trying to cushion the blow. You are going to have to erase everything about him and build yourself up.... (read in full...)
Tricked by a man - again!
Q. What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...
A. 23 August 2011: Are you so lonely that you accept being used? Tricked by a man - again!... (read in full...)
I'm having two affairs with married men
Q. hello, im 44 and am having two affairs with married men i myself are single with one daughter, i dont really feel i want these affairs but feel guilty about finishing them i have tried changing my phone no but they still get in touch what should ...
A. 20 March 2011: Two married men? If you wanted to end it all,then you would. How can you feel guilty about finishing with them and have no thought about the mens wifes? Two,both married. Suprise Suprise,but if you stop having sex with them,they will finish with you ... (read in full...)
Ex has no idea why we broke up but she should!
Q. Would like help pls. Has anyone ever come accross a partner who constantly betrays and hurts but never answers to what has caused the break up? Last week,after what seemed a turn for the better after getting back,my belief that its going somewhere ...
A. 20 March 2011: I find it unusual for someone to text him from a different number and out of nowhere he believes she is cheating. Without disrespect,it looks very much like she is and if so,then its a bit insulting. There is something not quite right about what she ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thinks I'm crazy or have personality disorder because I won't admit I cheated! I didn't cheat!
Q. hi everyone,my boyfriend seems to think i am mad or have a personality disorder because i will not admit to cheating on him,i have never cheated and even wanted us to share a home together just so it would stop any doubts but he declined my offer ...
A. 20 March 2011: Well usually accusing without any cause is usually a sign that he may be doing it. To say you have a personality disorder suggests there may be something more and has been going on for a long time. What do you mean "if you have a problem or not" Its ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's chin stubble is irritating my face. Any ideas to prevent this?
Q. My boyfriend has quite a bit of stubble on his chin. I love it, but I often get rashes and wondered if there was any way to prevent them, or make them less noticeable? thanks x...
A. 25 January 2011: Not really,its part of being a man and some men can develope rashes if they try to and as ruff as it looks can be quite a sensative area.... (read in full...)
I think my in laws are stalking me online
Q. I think my inlaws are stalking me online. A few years ago I posted a story about how awful a certain in-law had behaved towards me and how upset I was and asked what I could do about it got a few replies but the in-law it was regarding found out and ...
A. 23 January 2011: If you saw things about you,you know its about you and who wrote it,would it not get on your nerves? This is not reasonable and you should all get together face to face and resolve it like adults. You have not said the cause of it except them ... (read in full...)
I just want my fiance back!
Q. I have cheated on my fiance several times,he had an idea, but as nothing was admitted or had been confirmed was thinking he just may have got it wrong. Well thats how it seemed. Last week he walked in and showed me a text he`d been sent with the ...
A. 23 January 2011: I have difficulty knowing that you love your man,sleep next to him,was you having sex together soon after,especialy oral? I fail in understanding how you could behave like nothing had happened. He is going to have a lot of questions rolling his ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and we got back together. Still not sure if I can trust him.
Q. My boyfriend has cheated me in the past, we broke up and now we are back together after about 3 months. Im really really happy with him.. But there are times i just cannot trust himm.. and i get upset about it. :/ i dont know what to do??...
A. 21 January 2011: I wouldnt trust him either. If you are happy with him then why ask on this board? You are uncertain and that isnt a happy place to be.... (read in full...)
I am not an ogler. I am a red blooded man who appreciates beauty, but only wants my partner!
Q. I am totally in love with my girlfriend of two years and we are both 35. The only problem is that when we go out she watches me like a hawk and if she sees me looking an attractive woman then she has a go at me. If a scantily dressed attractive ...
A. 21 January 2011: If you are looking and going too far then she will object. The other things you say I`m afraid look very unbalanced and to her own advantage. If there is nothing else that you havent mentioned then you may have to accept that she is all about ... (read in full...)
Why is this man addressing my wife as "my dear"?
Q. Is it ok if a guy whom I suspect of having an emotional affair with my wife text her addressing her 'my dear...'?? She told me he is interested in her but she is not. And she continue meeting him. Is it alright for her to meet him knowing his ...
A. 8 January 2011: If by what you say,it has gone beyond being a customer.How did he get her number? She needs watching very closely.... (read in full...)
Should I move in with my married lover or will it not be accepted?
Q. Hello all. I hope you're enjoying the new year. Well, I'm in a quandary. Just over a year ago I began seeing a work colleague. There was an obvious attraction between us for about six months before we kissed. Naively, I thought that we could ma...
A. 8 January 2011: You know it wont be accepted. If he left his wife he will get another mistress and eventualy leave you. You wll then know how his wife feels.... (read in full...)
My ex dumped me months ago but he's still angry
Q. I am completely puzzled by my ex boyfriends behaviour. He obviously did not think i was worthy of his love. After 7 yrs and a child together, despite always having to prove to him i was, he still dumped me anyway and cut all contact with us. that...
A. 8 January 2011: OMG!!! Your life must be like a horror film. What happened? Be very careful because she seems rather dangerous. Make sure you dont get pulled back in because she sounds very calculated.... (read in full...)
He's leaving in a week, should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Not sure what to do here. I'm usually pretty assertive when it comes to guys and people I like in general. I've recently gone through a rough episode with someone I dated for a few months and wasn't interested in anyone at all and then I ran into...
A. 11 November 2010: If you dont do it now you never will.... (read in full...)
5 years of denial, then puts his photo on her Facebook profile!
Q. Why in this world would a very recent ex put up a photo of someone who she cheated on me with on her facebook? This person has never totaly gone away,always texting each other and her always lying. He is married and she denied it until i got in ...
A. 11 November 2010: It might be just to make you jealous and want her back. You would be better not doing.... (read in full...)
My feelings for her have totally changed since she got (and dumped) this other guy!
Q. I am out permanently of a 7 year on and off relationship. I am the one who most of the time did the dumping, usually through frustration, but both knowing it was just a fall out. We have both played our parts. When together again, my faults were ...
A. 9 September 2010: That woman has absolutely no feeling for anyone but herself. You did the right thing.... (read in full...)
I slept with him knowing he has a girlfriend
Q. Hi, i'm writing this as i feel lost and very confused. Me and a male friend went out for drinks and i ended up drinking a lot that evening, he was drinking also but didn't seem that drunk. We were walking home and he held my hand, i let him as i ...
A. 9 September 2010: Dont you think you may be mis-directing your thoughts? Be angry for helping him to make a fool of you.... (read in full...)
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