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My pregnant wife swears and breaks things when angry, sometimes I think I'd rather raise the baby as a single dad.

Q.   She is 36 weeks pregnant. I've been night shift all week and sleeping during the day. I have university 2 days per week and I will go straight from work to a half day of uni. Return home about 4pm and sleep until 10pm then go to work. I'm full ...

A.   30 June 2018: 3 months after the birth, she now has been charged with an AVO. Every year for the past 7 years she has gone back to China alone. Says she needs a break from me. She chooses times that I cannot come with her. This time she wants to go for 2 week... (read in full...)

My wife won't allow me to choose our son's name, constantly undermines me and hates me

Q.   My wife is 33 weeks pregnant with our first son. Today she started to fight with me. I had chosen a name for our child. She didn't even pay attention. I picked her up from the church today and she announced that she wants our son to be named by...

A.   26 February 2018: I read the posts and thanks for the straight up advice. I chose the name because my wife told me she didn't mind if I chose the name. I never expected her to suddenly tear my suggestion apart by calling it so low. You're right that there are a lo... (read in full...)

My wife won't allow me to choose our son's name, constantly undermines me and hates me

Q.   My wife is 33 weeks pregnant with our first son. Today she started to fight with me. I had chosen a name for our child. She didn't even pay attention. I picked her up from the church today and she announced that she wants our son to be named by...

A.   26 February 2018: I didn't include it in my original post but the reason she sometimes struggles to kiss me is resentment over an alleged incident. We were going through a rough patch and she was doing a lot of overseas tours to other countries as a tour guide. We ... (read in full...)

Anxious about the future. What help should I seek to overcome these obstacles that exist in my life?

Q.   Flunked out of college twice and now I'm 25 expecting to graduate next year after 7 years of schooling. I have lost all hope in my future because of my failure and an extremely competitive job market. I have no idea what I am struggling for and ...

A.   6 September 2016: I definitely want to answer this. Because I see myself in your description. Firstly, no matter what do not consider suicide. It's not the answer to anything! I was your age 8 years ago and facing very much the same prospects having failed a ... (read in full...)

I want romance and committment in our marriage!

Q.   I'm having some emotional problems and troubles with my wife. I wanted to post the question here before I seek the support of counselling. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4. It was rough in the first couple of years ...

A.   31 August 2016: Actually you're right. She isn't acting like a partner and not being much of a companion. Just putting work first all the time. Every year disappointed because she won't celebrate birthdays. I'm starting to wonder why I still bother with her. She... (read in full...)

I want romance and committment in our marriage!

Q.   I'm having some emotional problems and troubles with my wife. I wanted to post the question here before I seek the support of counselling. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4. It was rough in the first couple of years ...

A.   27 August 2016: I decided to anonymously sign up to a dating site and swapped question/answers with some users. They cannot see my photo and I cannot see theirs. But their answers included stuff like romantic together, something that's special and unique as a ... (read in full...)

Co-workers don't like me, should I be bothered?

Q.   I'm 25, working in a big company here in US. I just moved here from the Philippines a year ago, been struggling to naturally blend with people. I started with my new job 5 months ago, I totally enjoy my job and I feel like this is the right career ...

A.   27 August 2016: It definitely takes time to fit in to a new job with the co workers. It's good that you're not getting involved in the office politics. In my last job, I made the mistake of adding co workers to my social media page and one tried to put together ... (read in full...)

I want romance and committment in our marriage!

Q.   I'm having some emotional problems and troubles with my wife. I wanted to post the question here before I seek the support of counselling. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4. It was rough in the first couple of years ...

A.   27 August 2016: Thanks. I appreciate the comments and input. Fair point about her not being consistently abusive. Some of you mentioned being able to make a claim on the property and I think that's a fairly reasonable expectation once I have proven my contribution ... (read in full...)

I want romance and committment in our marriage!

Q.   I'm having some emotional problems and troubles with my wife. I wanted to post the question here before I seek the support of counselling. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4. It was rough in the first couple of years ...

A.   26 August 2016: She's not always contemptuous. I worked full time 50-60 hrs per week in that liquor store on top of full time and part time study. I have been taking breaks in the study and studying part time. Always working full time to pay all the bills and the ... (read in full...)

I want romance and committment in our marriage!

Q.   I'm having some emotional problems and troubles with my wife. I wanted to post the question here before I seek the support of counselling. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4. It was rough in the first couple of years ...

A.   26 August 2016: First of all, I will not be coming back here with new issues. Some of you know that this issue has been ongoing for a long time. I haven't ignored her wishes in bed. We have just experienced difficulty in that department and it has been hard ... (read in full...)

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

Q.   My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

A.   18 August 2016: Singinbird. Thankyou for your replies. Our home is nearly finished. We move in next month. You've made me start thinking. Tonight is another example. I'm writing this while she looks for sex videos on the computer. She needs those to get in the ... (read in full...)

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

Q.   My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

A.   3 July 2016: Thankyou for all the input. We had a good few days for a change but it didn't last so long. Tonight I decided to have a few drinks of alcohol. Anyway it was getting late and she said she had mood etc. Well I didn't have that much mood plus last n... (read in full...)

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

Q.   My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

A.   1 July 2016: Funny you should mention going separate ways. We had an argument tonight and I foolishly said I should marry a Japanese woman. She knows I like Japanese food and she hates Japanese with a vengeance. I made the remarks because previously she insulted ... (read in full...)

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

Q.   My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

A.   29 June 2016: Thanks for the input. I understand what you said about someone being a leader. I tried that many times. Suggesting many things but the answer is always the same from her. Flat out refusal to listen and make the time. I have 5 days off coming u... (read in full...)

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